16 Signs Your Best Friend Is About To Stab You In The Back

There is nothing like having a best girlfriend with whom you can share your deepest secrets, your hopes and dreams, and your most intimate of thoughts. You have tons of fun together, shop at the mall, go out to eat or to the club, act super-silly and goofy, and share one another's clothing and shoes. You simply can't imagine your lives without one another and your BFF is the most important person in your life. Even your boyfriend gets jealous!

But lots of relationships don't last forever. Even the closest of BFF types. And sometimes, one of the people in the relationship doesn't even realize the friendship is fizzling. An innocent gal can get stabbed in the back by the person she trusted most, her best friend. It obviously sucks, but it happens, even to the best of us. Some chicks just aren't the “ride or die” types and will drop their bestie like a hot potato if they deem the situation fit for doing so.

If you have a best pal, don't be the one caught off-guard by getting stabbed in the back by the friend you thought you knew through and through. Here are 16 clear-cut signs that your BFF is about to betray you in the worst ways possible. You may feel understandably sad or angry, but consider it good riddance. Who needs a friend who would hurt you anyway? Find a new best gal pal and start afresh. Karma will bite your ex-bestie on the butt in due time.

16 She Says She's Sick But You See Pics Of Her Partying On Instagram

You ask your bestie if she would like to go out for dinner or to the local bar but she tells you she can't go out because she is not feeling well and wants to take it easy and rest up. Sounds legit, so you wish her well and decide to stay home too. Since you can't fall asleep, you choose to check out what is going on with your pals on social media, only to find photos on Instagram of your BFF out on the town partying the night away with a bunch of your other friends. Naturally, you are pissed and feel angry and betrayed that she lied to you. And even if she was feeling ill but then felt better, she should have let you know that she was going out so you can join in on the fun. Looks like a back stabber in action, not to mention a bad liar. Be glad you didn't surprise her by bringing a container of homemade chicken soup to her house.

15 She Unfriends Or Unfollows You On Social Media On The DL

Wait a minute! How come you are no longer seeing any of your BFF's posts and status updates on Facebook? She always posts all sorts of stuff multiple times per day and now, not a thing? Before you text or call her to see what gives, you check out your friends list and realize she has “unfriended” you! What the heck? Is she trying to hide her activities, pics, and thoughts from you or is this her subtle way of moving towards ending the relationship? It's not like you had a fight, so you can't figure out what her motivation may have been. Looks like she is about to stab you in the back and perhaps she is even plotting her malicious moves on Facebook, you just can't see what she's up to.

14 She Starts Hanging Out With Your Sister Instead Of You

You start wondering why your little sis is MIA all the time and coincidentally, you can't seem to find a day when your BFF is available to hang out and chill with you like she usually does. Soon you realize the two are always unavailable at the exact same time. Hmmm, something's up and you think you have figured it out… the two of them are secretly hanging out, and they are not inviting you! The two of them go out for coffee, hit up the local stores for clothing shopping, and even get their nails done together. Talk about a major stab in the back. Not only is your BFF turning on you, but she has roped your sister into betraying you as well. Good thing your brother has got your back!

13 She Asks You What You're Wearing Before Every Event To Make Sure You Don't Out-Do Her

A good friend wants her bestie to look amazing. There is no competition between the two of you because you can both shine and be as beautiful as you are as individuals. But a back stabber of a BFF will always find out what you are planning to wear to parties and nights out so she can one-up you and show up looking cooler or sexier. She may even try to copy your look, but add some touches so she outshines you. That's no friend, it is more of an insecure loser who thinks life is all about looks. Find another pal who feels comfortable in her own skin and wouldn't risk a friendship just to show up at an event in a shorter skirt or in higher heels. You have higher standards than that. If she can't be your friend without looking better than you do, then send her materialistic butt out the door.

12 Rumors Start Spreading About You And Only She Could Be The Source

How do rumors get started? It is said they are started by the jealous people. Perhaps your bestie is envious of you, because all sorts of rumors are spreading about you, and only she could be the source since what has been leaked is info only she could know. But she's not even spreading the entire truth, so what is now out in the open is only partially true and mostly fabricated. Why would a BFF do this to her friend? Because she's a back stabber who is only looking out for her own benefit and not yours. Don't let the rumor mill go wild. Reign it in and let the world know that your BFF is spreading lies. But do let one rumor slip through… that she's a back stabber and your other pals better watch out or they could be her next victim.

11 She Ignores Your Texts And Calls But You Know She's Getting Them

You have been trying to get a hold of your bestie via calls and texts but she just won't respond. Calls go straight to voicemail and not a single text has been answered in days. You know she is around and getting calls and texts because other friends can get through to her and she has been as active as ever on social media. It is only you she seems to be ignoring without any reason or explanation whatsoever. It looks like your pal is prepping to stab you in the back. Her dismissiveness is just the start of what's sure to come. Be proactive and ditch her before she does something worse. Concentrate on the people who will give you the time of day and say goodbye to your BFF before she rudely ignores you yet another time.

10 She Forgets Your Birthday Even Though It Pops Up On Facebook

Every year, you and your BFF celebrate one another's birthdays with huge celebrations that last all weekend long. But this year, even though you went all out for your BFF's big day when it came around, when your b-day was up, there was radio silence from her. How could she forget your birthday? What a bummer. But everyone else you know is wishing you a special day because everyone knows it is your big day because a notification pops up on Facebook as always. Your bestie certainly saw the notification too, so even if she accidentally forgot about the big day, FB was there to remind her. She is deliberately trying to ruin your b-day - a sure sign some back stabbing is in the near future. Blow out those birthday cake candles without her and celebrate with the pals who genuinely love ya.

9 She Doesn't Pay Back The Money You Loaned Her - Claims She's Broke But Shows Up In New Jimmy Choos

When your bestie was in a financial bind, you stepped up to the plate and offered to loan her some cash, with the promise she would pay you back as soon as she had the money. Time has passed and you have not seen a dime from her and she claims that she is still broke and trying to make ends meet. You believe her and give her more time to pay back the generous loan. But then you see her at a party and she's raving about her latest extravagant purchase - an expensive pair of designer shoes! You're livid since she hasn't even mentioned the loan in months. Tell her to hand over the shoes as a payback or the relationship is kaput. Although, with your bestie's attitude, it was already headed for splitsville.

8 You're The Last To Know She Got Engaged And You're Not Asked To Be A Bridesmaid

When one's best pal gets engaged, she is usually the first to be told about the exciting news. So, when your bestie becomes engaged and doesn't even bother tell you, you had better believe that the friendship is not what it used to be. And the nail in the coffin? She doesn't ask you, her supposed BFF, to be a bridesmaid. Obviously, the friendship is on the rocks, or maybe she is gearing up to stab you in the back by asking another close friend to be her maid of honor. Don't expect to be invited to the wedding and just be glad that you didn't spend any money on an engagement gift. Your bestie may have found love with her fiancée, but the love has been lost between the two of you.

7 She Doesn't Invite You To Girls' Night And Another Friend Slips By Posting Pics

It's Friday night and you always have plans with your best friends and a group of other fun girls. But for some reason, you cannot get a hold of your BFF, so you figure that nobody's up for a night out this week. You are about to veg out and binge-watch your favorite TV show, when you decide to scroll through Instagram. It's then that you see that your BFF is out with a bunch of ladies at the bar you love to go to. But you were never invited! It looks like they are having a barrel of fun while you're at home in your grungy PJs wondering why you were left out. Your bestie is definitely about to ditch you, so play it cool and pretend you're none the wiser that they were out partying.

6 She Texts Your Boyfriend Flirty Texts And Pics

You keep hearing your boyfriend's phone buzzing up a storm and he is busy texting back. You are beginning to wonder what all this back and forth nonsense is all about, so you grab his cell right out of his sticky hands. Lo and behold, it is your supposed best friend texting your man flirtatious text messages and racy pics to go along with them! What gives? First you rip your man a new one for engaging in the convo in the first place, then you are off to give your bestie a piece of your mind. But why even bother? She has completely crossed the line big time and has already begun the process of stabbing you in the back. Cut your losses and dump them both. They deserve each other.

5 She Embarrasses You In Front Of Your Crush By Revealing Your Worst Habits

There's nothing like a good wingman (or woman) to help you meet and get together with a person you have been crushing on. A decent BFF is there to assist her friend who is trying to impress a fella that she is interested in. But a back-stabbing bestie will do all she can to sabotage the situation, even if it means completely embarrassing her friend in front of her crush. If you are talking to a guy you like and your BFF hinders the relationship from moving forward, she is not a true friend. Next time, go it alone and show your crush what a wonderful woman you are without the distraction of a rude friend. A good guy will see through the BS and even alert you to the back stabbing as it unfolds. Leave your friend at the bar and get that guy's digits for a date next weekend.

4 She Starts Chilling With Your Enemy… Who Needs Enemies With Friends Like This?!

Your BFF knows there is this one horrible girl you just cannot stand, and you never would hang out with her in a million years. When you see this chick out, you cringe, and your bestie is well-aware of your sour feelings towards this gal. But when a friend becomes a back stabber, all logic and kindness goes out the window. You find out through the grapevine that your BFF has suddenly started up a friendship with the enemy, and you are at a loss for words. They were never friends before, but now they seem to be doing everything together… things you and your BFF used to do. Consider the relationship over and let these two go on their merry way. Who needs enemies with friends like this anyway?

3 You See Her At A Party In Your Jacket You Thought You Lost

You used to have this most amazing jacket that you wore on special occasions or when you wanted to look super-chic and cool. But suddenly, after your BFF was rummaging through your closet, you cannot seem to find this jacket anywhere. You ask her if she has seen it, but she says she hasn't. You figure you must have left it at another friend's house or maybe it is lost in the back of your closet somewhere. But one night, you are at a party and your BBF shows up unexpectedly. And the most surprising part? She is wearing your favorite jacket! What a louse! This is a back-stabbing move if there ever was one. Demand she give your jacket back instantly and she will look like a fool. You may no longer have a best friend, but at least you'll look great looking for a new one.

2 She Flirts With Your Brother… And He's Only 17!

It is awkward and uncomfortable enough when a friend flirts with your brother, but it is even worse when you are older and your little bro is only 17-year-old! Sure, he loves all the flattering attention, but your BFF is truly crossing the line. Siblings ought to be off-limits to begin with, unless you are cool with a friend-sibling hookup. But to aim for a teenager, even if it is just for kicks? So not cool. Your bestie should be more respectful and lay off your baby bro. A chick that would stoop so low is sure to be a back stabber, so look out for this bright red flag and tell her to find a man her own age. You brother will be sorely disappointed, but he will find another girl to take her place.

1 She Starts Dating Your SOB Ex

If there is one thing in the “girl code” that all besties swear on, it is that you never date one another's exes. Not only is it awkward, but it is just disrespectful. So, if your BFF starts dating your ex, especially the one that was a total d-bag, you know that she is flat out stabbing you in the back and picking this moron over her friendship with you. The worst part is that she didn't even ask you if it would be OK for her to date him. And she didn't give you the heads up when she started dating that schmuck. Consider the relationship with your BFF to be over and let her find out the hard way what a terrible boyfriend your ex will be. When she crawls back to you for forgiveness once they break up, tell her to wipe her tears and find a new bestie with lower standards.