15 Things All Men Wish Women Did More Of

Every now and again, it may be necessary to add a little bit of excitement to your relationship, especially if you've been with someone for a long time. However, generally speaking, it's likely that there are things that you wish your partner would do more often, or at least without you prompting them to. This rings true for both men and women. Now, while it's always best to just have a talk with your partner if you're getting the sense that there needs to be a change or an improvement in your relationship, there are also a few things that are probably universal truths, in terms of what most men wish their female partners would do more of, more often.

Of course, this may not be true for all men in every relationship, but if you're thinking that you want to add a bit of heat to your bedroom activities, perhaps reading through this list and giving some of these things a try might just revive the spark in your relationship. Who knows-trying a few of these things might also make getting it on a lot better for you as well. What are you waiting for? Read through and try these things for yourself, since there's only one way to truly find out if you can spice up your intimate life to the next level.

15 Stop Being So Reserved And Shy And Just Indulge In The Moment

It can be very difficult to focus on romance when there are other things going on your life. Everyone gets stressed out about their jobs, bills, and a plethora of other things that happen on a day-to-day basis. While this is natural for everyone to feel, it can also get in the way of us enjoying things, like getting intimate with our significant others, for instance.

Now this isn't some elaborate plan to add some more heat to your bedroom, but you'd be surprised at how much better getting it on can be when you're focused on you and your partner and just feeling the pleasure in that moment. Instead of being distracted while you're being intimate, why not take a moment and be undistracted while you're getting close to your partner? He'll thank you for it, and you'll probably have more fun in the process.

14 Initiate First More Often

Sometimes, couples have one person who might initiate physical intimacy more than the other person. While this isn't necessarily a bad thing, if your partner is always the one making the first move, it's possible that over time, they might start to feel like they have to initiate all the time because you're just not that into it. If that's actually the case, you probably want to have a serious chat with your significant other. However, this usually isn't the case, so show them that you want them just as much as they want you, by taking initiative and getting things started for once. Not only is initiating a hot gesture, especially if you're not usually the one who gets things started - it's also a great way to ensure that you can get it on when you feel like it, because you're not waiting for your significant other to come to you first.

13 Treat It Like You're A Risqué Gift That's About To Slowly Unravel

Every now and again, it's nice to surprise your significant other with small gifts and treats. Of course, they might show more appreciation if those gifts come in the form of some barely-there outfits and a strip tease. It might not seem like a lot, but just think about how often you've gotten dressed up (or down, depending on how you look at it), to get things going in the bedroom?

If you really want to kick things up a notch, channel your inner vixen and get the booty shaking. A dance with a lot of sensual moves can be a great and unexpected way to start a romantic roll in the hay. Of course, the problem here is that once you get started on your private show, he might be so hot and bothered that you may not even get to finish.

12 Keep The Lights On

Keeping the lights on while you're being physically intimate is not necessarily the most creative way to spice up a relationship, but there are still many reasons why doing so might boost you and your significant other's love life.

Being intimate with someone can involve using your various senses to really enjoy every moment. Of course, there's the obvious touch, but then there is also hearing, smell, taste, and sight. Sight is a bit part of getting intimate because it's what you're seeing (your partner) that gets you so turned on in the first place. As well, men are visual creatures, and it would probably spice things up for them quite a bit if they were able to see everything you were doing to him, as well as how you react to everything he's doing to you.

11 Show Him You Can Own Him And Pleasure The Snake

Now this one seems fairly obvious, as it's highly unlikely that you'll ever meet a guy who doesn't enjoy some below-the-belt action, but just in case, it should still be included in this list. Now, it's understandable if heading down south isn't really your cup of tea, and if it's really something you do not want to do, it's best to discuss that with your partner to clear the air and avoid any awkward moments. However, if it's something that you don't mind doing, it's quite possible that your man would certainly appreciate you making your way down more often. You might think, “Well, he hasn't said anything,” but even if he hasn't expressed the desire for you to get low more often, believe us when we say that he'd certainly appreciate if you did.

10 Be More Spontaneous By Not Scheduling It Into Your Agenda

People who are in long term relationships can't always help but fall into a sort of routine in their day-to-day lives. You may not mean to do it, but after spending so much time together and getting to a level of comfort because of being together for so long, certain things might become mundane and second-nature, so there may be less surprises than there used to be.

As well, people get busy with work and other things, and there may not always be time to get it on. If you find that you're starting to schedule nookie between going to the gym, going to work, and doing laundry, you might want to add an element of surprise to the next time you get it on. Perhaps going for it, right as he walks through the door, could lead to some fun times.

9 Get Things Started Via Text

When someone wants to get things started in the bedroom, there are always some subtle cues that we use to let our significant other know that we're ready to get things going. Whether it's soft kisses or body rubs, or perhaps a knowing look - we all have different ways to express our desires. Of course, there are some cues that are more obvious than others.

For instance, you could get right to the point and send a detailed text to your significant other about exactly what you'd like to do to them. Just make sure to do it when they're nowhere neat you. Keep them distracted, as well as hot and bothered with some explicit texts and them might just drop what they're doing to come and see you.

8 Be More Open To Trying That Thing He's Always Wanted

Even if your skills between the sheets have never been described as “'vanilla,” as with all things, there's always room for improvement. Being more adventurous in bed doesn't have to mean going so far out of your comfort zone that you're uncomfortable and don't enjoy it. It simply means trying something different from time to time. This could mean dirty talk, introducing blindfolds, perhaps trying up your partner or allowing him to tie you up - the list goes on. Just get creative. At the end of the day, you want to try something that perhaps you've been curious about, and that might make him raise an eyebrow when you say that you'd like to give it a go. Bonus points if it's something that you both haven't tried before.

7 Surprise Him With New Moves

As we get spend more time and get comfortable with our partners, we also start to learn the things that really turn them on in the bedroom. While knowing what sorts of things really get you partner going isn't a bad thing at all, it can make things feel a little bit boring in the bedroom, when you start to resort to tried-and-true moves all the time.

To remedy this, peruse the internet or read a few books about pleasurable moves you can try - for your partner, as well as for your partner to try on you. When you take your research to the bedroom, you'd be surprised at how intense getting it on can feel, especially with these unfamiliar moves that you're trying on each other. Of course, not all of it will work, but at least you can have some fun trying out different things.

6 Get Loud(er)

Okay, so we all know that there are at least a few tell-tale signs that let us know when our significant other is really enjoying what's going on in the bedroom - think toes curling, head tilting back, and of course all of the sounds and words of reassurance that clues us into just how much they're liking what's happening. The same goes for you letting your partner know that they're hitting just the right spot. Now of course, it's perfectly fine if you're not very vocal in bed. This doesn't mean that you're not enjoying yourself, and you're probably giving off physical signals that you're not even aware of. However, if you are the vocal type, letting go and letting out a scream here and there is sure to let him know that he's doing everything just right.

5 Take Control Of The Situation

We all know that getting up close and personal with your significant other is a two-way street. Both of you are generally just as involved in what's going on, as the other person, and that's what makes things so fun - it's like a two-player game where you both come out winners. Making sure that your romps are mutually pleasurable ensures that you're both really enjoying yourselves. However, there is usually one partner who takes the reigns a little bit, when it come to getting down and dirty, and if that person isn't typically you, then go ahead and take control. Being the one calling the shots can be pretty hot, because it means that you want to take charge. It could also be just the switch up you need to liven things up in the bedroom.

4 Get Into Character

It's pretty safe to say that everyone has a fantasy, however simple or elaborate. Because of this, if you're looking to add some more heat to the bedroom, you might want to get chatting with your significant other about a situation or a character that gets them really excited. Then it's time to take on that role and get things going in the bedroom.

Now, if you're already aware of your significant other's fantasies, you might want to take it upon yourself to get into character without them knowing, and plan a little surprise where you greet them at the door dressed in character. That'll certainly spice things up. Can you imagine the look on his face when he sees you all dressed up and ready to act out his fantasy?

3 Let Him Take The Reigns

Whether they say it or not, most men enjoy being in charge. While getting it on is usually a two-person affair, allowing your man to feel a little bit powerful by letting your significant other take control when you two are getting intimate could give him that extra confidence boost he needs to really drive you crazy in the bedroom.

The simple fact is, people tend to feel more attractive and desirable when they're feeling their best. This may seem obvious, but confidence really does wonders for people, especially when they're trying to be sensual. This is why giving your partner control once in a while could boost their confidence and get them really excited about showing you who's boss in a way that will make you feel oh so good.

2 Change Up Your Locale

The bedroom is always a great place to be, because that's where the magic happens, so to speak. The bedroom's connection to getting busy is undeniable. However, it's certainly not the only place where two consenting adults can get it on - it's just a matter of being creative. If you're feeling like you want to try something a little bit different, perhaps it's time to take your love-making to a different room in the house, like the kitchen for example. If you're feeling especially risqué, however, you can even move your romp outside off the house. If you're going to switch up the place where you usually get it on, just make sure that wherever you go, that you and your significant other don't get caught getting busy is public.

1 Let Him Head Down South

You might not think that this is something men want women to do more of, but you'd be surprised. Knowing that you're giving your partner pleasure can be a pretty significant turn on for people, because it means that you're able to get your partner just as hot and bothered as they get you. That mutual desire to please each other can make for a really great romp, if you both know that you're devoted to making each other feel good. Asking him to take a trip down south means that you want to be pleasured, and that more importantly, the way he does it is what will do it for you. As well, when these sorts of the moves are on the table, it could mean that there's a treat on the way for him as well, which makes this a win-win.