Things He'll Be The Best And Worst At, According To His Sign
We often turn to astrology to let us know about peoples personalities based on their Zodiac signs. Thats why one of the oldest pick-up lines in the book is 'Hey, what's your sign?' Some of us even ask that to people we have met for the first time, not just people we are interested in romantically. This is because it gives us at least a slight idea of the personality type that this new person in our lives has. And this is pretty important when it comes to picking someone you want to be romantically and intimately involved with. Think of the Zodiac as a handbook to the major personality archetypes that we will encounter in the world. When you want to get to know someone quickly, the Zodiac certainly comes in handy.
Of course like all things in astrology, none of these traits and characteristics are rules. There is a just a higher than average chance for certain signs to have certain traits. Just like every sign has negative personality traits, they also have positive ones that when utilized properly can mitigate the less desirable aspects of their personality. Don't discount a guy just because of his sign, just learn how to work with his personality type to make him into a better person. Everyone has the potential to grow in a positive way and this list could very well give you the tools to function better with your partner when you understand their sign better. Read up ahead and see what signs positive and negative traits would work best for you in a partner!
24 Capricorn Is Not Great At Being Social, They Can Also Be Downers
Capricorns are not the most social sign out of the Zodiac and don't try to make them. They enjoy spending time with the few people they are close with, but outside of that they just don't feel the need to be in big groups of people socializing like some people do. Night out at a club? Don't bring a Capricorn. The two of you sitting in a quiet pub? Sounds like their perfect evening. Another aspect is that Capricorns are not great at seeing the bright side of things, in fact they tend to focus in on any negative. This can be emotionally draining for you because it can seem that you are always the one trying to lift them up and cheer them up. That's not to say that they are always anti-social grumps but if you are the kind of person that loves to go out and meet new people, you may struggle being with a Capricorn.
23 Taurus Is Not Good At Balancing Work And Life
The trait that makes them such a good provider also affects them in a not so positive way. They are workaholics in the truest sense of the word and sometimes they forget there is anything else to do in life other than work. This can lead to you feeling neglected because they do not make enough time for you and for doing fun things together. You just have to get ahead of them and tell them what you want to do and when you want to do it. Taurus like to listen and do what their told, and if they know something is important to you they will put effort into doing what would make you happy. And it's not like they don't enjoy doing things other than working they just forget! So remind them how fun life is.
22 Sagittarius Is Bad At Being Consistent
This one is going to drive you crazy with this factor of their personalities. Sagittarius has a really hard time sticking to goals they make. This is partially caused by their inability to focus because they are one of the more hyperactive signs. They also just get bored very easily and always new some kind of new stimulation. You guys can promise to go start going to the gym together and Sagittarius more likely than not will end up bailing on you after a couple times. Do you guys have a set date night? That probably won't work with their ever changing schedules. And in the beginning you may find that their feelings are all over the place and thats because they have a hard time figuring that out themselves. This can make them a bit hot and cold. Until they really fall for you, in which case they will be consistent.
21 Pisces Is Horrible At Being Alone Which Makes Them Very Needy And Co-dependant
Well, we did tell you that Pisces is very emotional and that they would drown you in love and affection. Expect to wake up in the morning with them immediately telling you how much they love you. The thing is, you had better be able to serve that amount of attention back onto them. They are so sensitive and get upset kind of easily so even when you think you have not done anything wrong you may find that their feelings are hurt because you only kissed them once that morning instead of twice. They will also be very dependant on you and when your not together they will expect to know what you are doing. Their need to love you and constantly be loved by you can be too exhausting for some personality types. For example an emotional Pisces in a relationship with a cold Aquarius would just never work. Pisces would be crying all the time and Aquarius would want to tear their hair out.
20 Aries Has No Patience And A Short Temper
Do you often hear from Aries boyfriend about how he got into a fight when he went out? Well that is basically to be expected with Aries. You may come to find that this guy has you walking on eggshells and that never makes for a good relationship. We aren't saying every Aries is like that, but most of them do have to work on not getting worked up over every little thing. Also his lack of patience is going to be frustrating for you as well. Like every unfavourable character trait this can be worked on, Arie's is not forsaken to be angry and impatient for ever. And if they love you they will want to work on themselves to make the relationship work. As a fire sign Aries will alway shave a lot of energy they need to release in some way or another. Healthy outlets go a long way!
19 Gemini Is Not Great At Commitment
These guys are living in an alternate reality half of the time with their overactive imaginations. It is hard sometimes to get them to come down to earth and really take a lot at reality. And it's not because they can not do that. It is mostly because they don't want to look at reality. They resent anything that ties them down too much because it interferes with their whimsical predisposition. This is the guy you will end up waiting on a ring from if he is the one you want to marry while he internally debates it over and over with himself of whether he really wants to partake in the institute of marriage. And thats how they will paint it, and it is partly true. It isn't that they don't want to spend the rest of their life with you, the idea of marriage and being bound to someone is what bothers them. Maybe just a civil ceremony for you guys would work better?
18 Aquarius Is Not Good At Communicating Or Showing Their Feelings
Aquarius is a cold hearted son of a gun. Sometimes it goes a long way to actually express the feelings that one holds deep in side of themselves but for Aquarius that is very hard to do. If someone neglects to ever open up to their partner and let them know just how much they mean to them and how much they need them, well they may come to find that very few people can last in a relationship with them. If you have ever dated a guy that just kept all his emotions under lock and key even when you begged him to open up, well he was probably an Aquarius. They just are not good at expressing their feelings and they do not enjoy being vulnerable in front of people. Even the one they love the most. This is not the end of the world, the communication just needs to stay open. Anyone can learn how to open up.
17 Cancer Is Not Great At Sharing, Especially You
And for all the great things that Cancer guy does for you to make you feel like an amazing princess, he has some faults too. He wants to be the number one person in your life that does everything for you. He expects to be your best friend, your therapist, and even your carer. And it is not always healthy to put all those eggs into one basket, even into your significant other. It is healthy to have a number of different people in your life that meet different needs. Cancer guy will want to invest all of himself into you and fuse your lives together. It is the epitome of co-dependance but if that is the kind of relationship structure that works for you than you and Cancer could be very happy together.
16 Scorpio Can Be Very Controlling - They Want You To Themselves
Scorpio's intensity and focus on you can become unhealthy. They will make you the centre of their universe and they will expect you to do the same with them. Sometimes it may seem like they want to tie you up and keep you all to themselves and honestly, they probably do think about doing that sometimes. They will get jealous of your friends and wonder why you need to spend as much time with as you do. Of course among Scorpio's there will be varying degrees of how controlling they but it is something to watch out for with them. If you fall in love with a Scorpio you find is trying to control everything in your life try and talk to them about why they feel the need to do that. Things can be worked out and people can change to be better partners. They are not doomed by their Zodiac sign to be controlling and jealous boyfriends.
15 Leo Is Too Obsessed With Himself
If you are with a Leo guy do you find that the spotlight always has to be on him? Do you find that more often than not you are the one sitting and listening to another one of his monologues either about himself or some intelligent thought he has had? Well this is a big part of the Leo personality. They think that they are heavens gift to man and that feeling gets validated constantly for them. They naturally are usually the centre of attention and people always want to be their friends. As their partner you just need to take them down a notch and keep their egos from getting so big that they become unbearable. Because it can happen and than no one will want to be around them. Just remind them of that and social Leo will work on pay more attention to others. They would do a lot to avoid being alone!
14 Virgo Is Judgemental And Not Great At Hearing Your Point Of View
The high standards that Virgo holds themselves to also extends to the people around them. They expect you to have impeccable character and always be well behaved. And they don't understand why that is difficult to do because it is so easy for them to do. They always think they are right and really don't even want to engage with another point of view from their own. This is going to be frustrating for you as their partner. Of course the silver lining is that because as they do always want to do the right they want to be a good partner. Explain to theme exactly how your feel and Virgo will work towards becoming a better partner for you.
13 Libra Can Be Shallow And Overly Critical
Sometimes Libra is too concerned with appearances. And sometimes they don't think past appearances. They are very what you see is what you get, so they treat other people the same way. Libra can end up being the kind of guy that comments when you may have put on an extra couple pounds which is so not cool. They don't seem themselves as critical of course which is why they think its okay to give the type of 'advice' that they do. They see it as helping people to become better versions of themselves not realizing that they are telling people to look and act like what they want to look and act like. Just keep your Libra guy in check if he starts doing this, and point out how shallow and judgemental he can be. After all, they are pretty good listeners so it will not fall on deaf ears.
12 Aries Is A Great Protector
Aries one of your biggest strengths is your strength. You have a fiery spirit and an intimidating physical presence. When you combine that with how loyal and dedicated you are to the people you love, well no one had better hurt someone you care about. Especially your significant other. You love to be in the protector role as well, as it feeds into your alpha personality s you gladly do it. This does not only mean in a physical sense it also extends other things like providing for the one you care about and making sure they are secure. That is just another form of protection. Your ideal partner would be someone that needs that kind of thing for the person they are with, rather than someone more independent.
11 Taurus Is A Great Provider
Taurus is one of, if not the most disciplined sign. They are not known for being a great time but they are probably your boss at work. This is because they are extremely focused and being successful is very important to them. While students they are always getting good grades and this continues on in the workforce. Taurus does not only work so hard because he is ambitious and naturally has an unbreakable work ethic but also it is important to him to be able to provide for his partner. They do not do well without some kind of control and making a good living is a part of them having control.They live their lives very scheduled and almost rigidly but at least with a Taurus you always know there is money in the savings account.
10 Gemini Is The Best At Taking You On Adventure
This guy can drive you crazy at times because it seems like his head is alway sin the clouds, but he will also inspire you and enrich your life. Never able to stay in one place and always wanting to explore, this guy will be taking you on adventures all the time. Even if its something as simple as staying in one night, the Gemini guy will come up with some kind of game to keep you guys occupied and laughing while you make dinner together. Never a dull moment with Gemini. They are very gentle and will always have an arm around you because they love to hold you close. They are intellectuals which makes them great conversationalists, so even just chatting your Gemini guy will seem like an adventure.
9 Cancer Will Be Good At Making You Feel Loved
The Cancer guy is a big mama's boy. And while this may scare some women off or seem like a red flag, it actually translates into a very sweet and affectionate guy when it comes to Cancer. He respects all women but especially the most important ones in his life. He is also a very emotional guy which is good because he wants to know what your feeling and where you at. With some guys it always seems like you are talking their ear off and they are barely listening but that is not a problem you will have with Cancer. He will listen to you, spoil you, and always put you first. All of these things will make you feel like the most loved girl in the world and isn't that all a gal wants?
8 Leo Is The Best At Charming You And Getting You Excited About Life
Leo is a ray of sunshine. Full of life and warmth, he will make you so excited to just wake up in the morning and see what he has in store for the day. Leo's are very charismatic and intelligent and when you love one, well in your eyes these traits will just grow exponentially. It is almost impossible for you to stay mad at them because they know just what to do to charm you off your feet. Boring is not an adjective that comes up when you date a Leo. If you are high energy than a Leo is the guy for you. You can leap out of bed together in the morning and seize the day together. They are all about living life to the fullest. There is never a dull moment with Leo.
7 Virgo Is Very Trustworthy
Of course any guy that actually tells you that you can trust him, is probably bad news. In fact anyone, guy or girl telling you how trustworthy they are are almost definitely not. But Virgo holds themselves to such high standards when it comes to having character that you can actually trust them. They are like a living embodiment of Aesop's Fables. They also expect the same back from people, and if you are not a bad person that should not be too hard to do. Of course an extension of their honesty is how loyal they will be to you and your relationship. Practical, honest, and kind Virgo's make for very stable and secure partners. If you have never dated one before and have had abad luck dating, maybe you should!
6 Libra Is Great At Listening
Libra is all about balance and for this reason they always want to hear everyone out. They like to be informed of everyones side and their feelings. Beyond that though Libra is a very emotionally intelligent sign and they know and understand how important listening is in any relationship. But especially a romantic relationship! A relationship that has no communication is on the path to destruction. You cannot have a healthy relationship without communicating. When you are with Libra, they will always want to talk and check in with each other about where each of your heads and hearts are at. This is fundamental building block of a successful and healthy relationship. Libra guys need to teach their buddies more about how to listen to their partners.
5 Scorpio Is Very Focused And Will Be Very Attentive To You
Scorpio's are ruled by passion, and when they fall for someone they fall hard. They will put 110% into you like they do for anything they are dedicated to in life. They are very intense in relationships and if you are the kind that lives for an intensely passionate romance a Scorpio could be the one for you. They will cater to you and make sure you are always feeling good and taken care of. Foot massage? No problem. Need him to run to Mcdonalds to get you a burger when you are hungover in the morning? He would be glad too. Scorpio's are very physical as well so you can bet that your activities in the bedroom will be a great time. Scorpio likes to be the best, especially when it comes to being the best partner.
4 Sagittarius Will Also Keep You Laughing And Having Fun!
Some of us prefer to be around light hearted people because it just makes life seem lighter in general. Sagittarius might be the funniest sign. They love to joke around and keep everyone laughing, but they especially love when they are able to make you laugh. Sometimes their jokes come at the expense of others, but their loveable goof ball nature makes it hard to stay mad at them. As fire signs they are also very emotional and passionate so you will never feel unloved from them. They love to vocalize how they feel and show you just how much they care about you. They are also eternal optimists so when you are feeling down they will always be there to show you the light at the end of the tunnel. Their positivity is infectious.
3 Capricorn Is Ambitious And Will Work Hard For Their Goals - Including You
Capricorn is the kid in school that starts out being the teachers pet, then goes to be President of the Student Council. Finally they go on to an amazing university and get a great job. They will not stop there till they are at the top of the ladder in their respective fields. They are very disciplined and their passion in life is working towards being successful. They are in the top 3 out of the Zodiac signs for work ethic. While it can seem at times that they are too school / work obsessed they are very dedicated to the people they love. They want to be able to do everything for you and be the best partner they can be for you.
2 Aquarius Is Very Generous
The humanitarian of the Zodiac, Aquarius has a huge heart and this makes them a wonderful partner. While they are very independent themselves, they like it and even want other people to depend on them for support and help. They want to be the person that takes care of their partner in every way and meets all their needs. They will share everything with you, down to their very last penny. They do not think of their stuff and money as theirs, rather as both of yours. This makes it easy to build a life with them, especially if you are just generous a person who is also willing to throw everything they have at something with the person they care about.
1 Pisces Will Shower You With Love And Attention
Sweet Pisces will want to hold your hand as much as possible. They will not be able to get enough of you or showing you how much they care about you. This does not work for everyone, but if thats your love language than a Pisces would make you very happy. They are such gentle sensitive souls, and while that can be frustrating at times it also means they are very conscious of other peoples feelings and especially their significant others. If they think you are sad they will get sad and try and do anything in their power to cheer you up. Including smothering you in kisses. Their emotional nature makes them very intuitive and sometimes it can feel like they are able to read to your mind. Their just very in tune with their partner and their partners emotions.
