The One Thing That Attracts You To Someone (Him & Her), Based On Astrology
There is nothing more magical than having a special moment with someone, and you know that you must have done something right. You have been seeing someone for awhile and the sparks are flying light years into outer space. You feel as if you are on cloud nine and that your world has been transformed into a heavenly place of paradise. This person seems to be charmed by you and holds on to your every word. This is the blissful phase of the honeymoon period and you are on a high that you never want to come down from. You believe that this person could do no wrong and condemn those that think otherwise.
Each of us has that one quality in a person that makes us tick. That is the moment when we decide that the person is no longer solely our crush, but someone that we are really into (or potentially in love with). There has to be something about them that has differentiated them from our exes in the past. There are certain qualities that are an absolute must in order to attract a person according to each of the zodiac signs. Read on to find out what exactly those are for both men and women.
24 Aries Men: A Person That Takes Charge
In order to get with an Aries man, you must have a super-stamina that matches his. Being the most masculine sign in the entire zodiac, he loves the thrill of the chase so don't make it too easy for him. Ruled by the fiery planet of Mars, Aries men are highly competitive so you need to tap into his innate desire to hunt, track and chase you down. He loves anything that is fast-paced, like muscle cars and sports so you better be able to keep up with his prowess. Once you get the chance to have him in bed, he loves that push-and-pull power struggle. Nothing excites him more than an independent woman who he will try to tame, even if its just for one night. Don't be afraid to show him your fierce side.
23 Aries Women: Someone Who's Not Afraid Of Confrontation
Just like her male counterpart, an Aries woman is ruled by Mars, the masculine planet. That doesn't necessarily make her manly per se, but she tends to have a tomboyish personality. As such, she needs a guy who is more rugged and a man's man. She is not the mushy type and neither is she romantic in the conventional sense, so she doesn't mind a little insensitivity. A real turn on for her would be a guy who is willing to fight for her and defend her honor. She is not afraid of confrontation and her ideal guy will not be either. In order to impress an Aries woman, your man game needs to be strong and you need to dominate other men around you. You get double points if you are a boxer or a fighter of some sort.
22 Taurus Men: Someone Who Maintains An Elegant Appearance
A Taurus man has a specific set of attraction factors and mindset when it comes to the women in his life. These types tend to be superficial and pay a lot of attention to what they can see. They associate appearance to a person's inner core, even though you are not supposed to judge a book by its cover. Though this may be a personal flaw in his character, this means that it is best to always look right, dress right and you are fit.
At the same time, they love having their protective side stimulated by women who show a vulnerable side. Appeal to his need to shield you away from harm by hinting that you are not perfect. Just don't overdo it otherwise it will make you appear needy.
21 Taurus Women: A Secure Pretty Boy-Type
Taurus women are ruled by Venus, the planet of love and beauty. This means that she won't just let anyone come near her. You will need to be patient because she won't be turned on merely by a flirty glance and a strong drink. Don't worry about it too much if she puts you in the friend zone, that is usually just part of the process.
As much as she appreciates a guy who puts some effort into his appearance, she also needs security. She has major trust issues so she needs someone who will consistently tell her how special she is. Avoid cat-and-mouse mind games. They may work on other signs but not this girl. The key is to be direct, straightforward, and have nothing to hide.
20 Gemini Men: Someone Who's Witty And Fun Loving
Gemini men are a unique breed. They are full of surprises, spontaneity and a little bit of danger. They are never boring and always seem like they are on the go. In order to strike his fancy, talk about your many hobbies and interests. Grab him by the hand and introduce him to new people and experiences. The key is to always be mixing things up and to never settle into a fixed routine. The one thing they hate the most is being stuck in a rut. If you find that they are stuck in a rut with school, work or even a relationship, help them break free of it. They will feel nothing but appreciation and excitement towards you if you can manage to keep them on their toes.
19 Gemini Women: A Talkative Conversationalist
A Gemini woman has a bubbly personality and is always searching for adventure and thrilling experiences. Don't take her to a movie on the first date because there will be no talking involved. Gemini ladies are the biggest chatterboxes out of all the zodiac and they need constant mental stimulation. Bore her once and she will not be returning any of your texts. The beauty about a Gemini woman is that they crave adventure and a bit of a challenge. This means that they will not care if things don't go perfectly as planned. Geminis are verbal creatures and using the power of words to turn her on will go a long way. Don't be afraid to talk dirty. You will be glad you did.
18 Cancer Men: A Warm-Hearted, Maternal Individual
It is no secret that Cancers are the mommy's boys out of the entire zodiac. They are sentimental and will fall in love with anyone who can bring them back to their nostalgic childhood. The key is to be good at anything that involves being domesticated in any way. Cook for him, take care of him when he gets sick and talk about your 10-part vacuum cleaner that sucks up all the dirt everywhere. As to see his little kid pictures and show him pictures of you when you were a kid. Never come off as superficial, but keep your appearance as feminine as possible. You will earn extra points if you have larger breasts since those are signs of fertility.
Speak highly of your relationship with your mother and make sure that you get along with his. This is the critical point in the relationship if you are dating a Cancer man. To love him is to love his mother.
17 Cancer Women: Someone Who Knows How Take Care Of Them
Cancer girls are one of the most feminine women in the entire zodiac. This gives them a tendency to be insecure. What they need is someone who will be a provider and stick around no matter how ugly things might get. They are family-oriented and will be turned on by someone who values their own family as highly as they do. Cancer women make for perfect mafia wives because they know better than anyone that family is the most important. Prove to her that you are in it for the long haul and that you are not just some casual Tinder dude who just wants to get in her pants. Have a good career and that will show her that you can provide for her and your potential future family.
16 Leo Men: Someone Who Turns Heads And Lights Up A Room
Leo men are unforgettable after you meet them for the first time. They have an uncanny ability to light up a room with their charm and thrive on being in the spotlight. Therefore, what they desire is someone who turns heads and dresses with decadence. They want someone who they can show off and brag about to their friends. Leo men are very concerned about what other people think of them so make sure that you never do anything to hurt his pride. Make sure that you get along with anyone in his inner circle but don't be afraid to put him in his place if he disrespects you.
Leos can be incredibly picky and can have a reputation for breaking hearts. The key to his heart will be to stand out from the crowd and keep up the chase. Don't be too easy. He needs to know that you are just as special and prized as he is.
15 Leo Women: Someone Who Provides Lots Of Entertainment And Laughter
Ruled by the sun (the center of the universe), Leo women love to be the center of attention. As much as she enjoys being center stage, she also enjoys her time alone in order to recharge. Take advantage of that alone time that you have with her and entertain her as much as possible. Crack some offbeat jokes, show her some outrageous YouTube videos or tell her a funny story.
This woman is larger than life and you might have to share time with other people since there are many who are drawn to her. Stand out from all the others by getting to know who she is when she is not out in public. Give her space when she needs it and find your own time with her and without the crowd. Always compliment her and never hurt her ego by telling her that she looks fat in those jeans.
14 Virgo Men: Someone Who Has Their Act Together
Unlike some more romantic signs, Virgo men tend to choose their partners based on practical choice over their passions. They are hard workers and are into women who have their life in order. They are turned on by someone who is going to go far in life, almost to the point where they might be boring.
Virgo men can be worrywarts and appear to be perfectionists because they fixate on every little detail. Though they will be the first to point out your flaws, they also recognize their own on the same token. These types have very specific criteria in mind when it comes to who they date. Make sure you possess that one ideal quality they are looking for, or you may be out of the running.
13 Virgo Women: Someone Who Isn't Afraid Of Delivering Brutal Honesty And Constructive Criticism
Just like their male counterparts, Virgo women are one of the most critical types that you will ever meet. At the same time, they are also self-critical and can appreciate someone who can give them some genuine advice, even if it's not sugar-coated. It will do no justice for these women to have sweet nothings whispered into their ear. If you tell them that you are going to do something, then either do it or let her know in advance if you can't. Don't be afraid to tell her what she needs to hear as opposed to what she wants to hear. As long as you are not being abrasive or disrespectful, it will be a major turn on for her. Making her everyday life more enjoyable is the key to her heart.
12 Libra Men: Someone Who Has An Ethereal Appearance
Since Libra men are ruled by Venus (the planet of love and beauty), it is important that you maintain appearance. Out of all the men in the zodiac, they have the most propensity to seek out beauty and aesthetically pleasing things. It is also important to have an air of elegance and authentic femininity. Don't be too racy or overly sexual in your appearance.
Although Libra men prefer to be chased, being too aggressive in your demeanor will come off as too barbaric for him. Channel that inner maiden and you will strike his fancy. Maintain pleasant conversation and enough eye contact to keep him enchanted. The trick with Libra dudes is to maintain your social skills and showcase your knowledge through conversation. They love to be stimulated through wit and banter. Pair that with an ethereal appearance and you should be home free.
11 Libra Women: A Smooth-Talking Charmer
The Libra woman can be difficult to turn on because all the stimuli must first be filtered through their head. Her brain will be the largest sex organ on her body (along with her backside). Make her laugh endlessly and provide her with plenty of mental stimulation through the art of conversation. She will be able to sense if you are trying too hard to turn her on, so make sure you keep your attempts natural.
Don't be too afraid to be yourself but make sure that you do not act in a vulgar manner. It is more important to have charm and dress well than to be good looking. She prefers to be the prettier one in the relationship.
10 Scorpio Men: An Innocent, Timid Wallflower
Scorpio men are the embodiment of the Christian Grey archetype. They have an air of mystery which makes them irresistibly sexy. He tends to fall for the reserved types who don't want to talk about their personal business on the first few dates. He admires women who don't need to be the center of attention and appear to live in their own little worlds. He would prefer you to look classically feminine with a small touch of innocence. Think school girl or the sexy librarian. Be sure not to look too conservative and show just a hint of your sexuality. The mystery will arouse him and use slight modesty that will make him want to corrupt you. Keep him wanting to know more about you and don't give everything away too easily.
9 Scorpio Women: A Chaotic, Edgy Type
What many other women might deem as creepy, strange or unorthodox, the Scorpio woman typically finds sexy. The Scorpio woman loves her men with and edge who are not that easy to figure out. Though it will not seem like it at first, she has a wild side and a deep-rooted need for adventure and excitement. Take her to a horror movie, suggest a trip to the gun-shooting range, dare her to go skydiving or just find something that will shoot some adrenaline into her bloodstream. These women are the most curious. To keep her interest, you will need to find new ways to satisfy her inquisitive nature. In order to win this lady over, you will need to appeal to both her intellectual side and her sexual side.
8 Sagittarius Men: Wanderlust, Philosophical Types
Typically, it is the Sagittarian man who engages and takes the first step towards courtship. These men are busy-bodies and never seem to have the ability to sit still for long periods of time. What he is looking for is an easy-going, light-hearted girl who wants to have fun and also accompany him through life's adventures. At the same time, they want someone who is open-minded to different religions, philosophies, and ideologies. Their straightforward nature makes them impervious to mind games so don't even try it. Just be honest, fun-loving and daring enough to be down for anything he suggests. He will get bored with someone who doesn't like to explore the world as much as he does. The key here is to be active and willing to run around.
7 Sagittarius Women: The Chase-People With Other Options
The Sagittarian woman will let you know when she is interested in you and there will be no second-guessing. She is often found in the position of being a mistress as she enjoys the thrill of luring a man away from the confines of his everyday life. She might go after the cheaters or at least someone who knows no boundaries. They get off on the thrill of the chase and wanting what they can't have. Sagittarian women are always full of ideas and positive energy. Give her the same upbeat vibes right back but never become too available to her. Stimulate her by talking about new age ideas but then tell her that you are busy over the weekend. It might even be worth it to insinuate that there might be someone else in your life. Her competition mode will kick into high gear and she will try to win your affection.
6 Capricorn Men: A Strong Individual With A Lot Of Baggage
If you have heard the phrase that a man wants "a lady in the streets, but a freak in the sheets", that was clearly coined for a Capricorn man. He has an inner snob and seeks out a woman who can hold her own and improve his public image. However, he still wants to be your knight in shining armor and come to your rescue. Show him how strong yet elegant you are by helping him improve his image that he so dearly values. At the same time, don't be afraid to reveal some hidden vulnerability about yourself. After you have gotten to know him on a certain level when you can trust him, tell him about that horrible childhood memory. His heart that he keeps so guarded will melt and he will just want to go to great lengths to protect you.
5 Capricorn Women: A Person That Has Power And Restriction
If there is one woman in the entire zodiac who gets off on a suit and tie, businessman type of attire, it is the Capricorn woman. What she is looking for is someone who builds empires from the ground up, someone who makes you work for it. She tends to be guarded with her emotions and expects the same inner strength from the men that she dates. Above all, she gets turned on by a guy with status and authority. She might keep you at a distance in the beginning because she does not want to invest her energy into someone who she is unsure about. Show her that you are a man of discipline and willing to take the moral higher ground in challenging situations. The key to a Capricorn woman's heart is wisdom and stature.
4 Aquarius Men: Rebellious, Wild Types
Aquarian men are the rebels of the zodiac. What they want in a girl is someone who is going to be their partner in crime with an "us against the world" mentality. Like a typical air sign, he enjoys intellectual conversation. However, it will not just be any type of conversation that will turn him on, An Aquarian man enjoys a good debate so be sure not to be too much of a "yes girl." Don't be afraid to disagree with him from time to time and make your opinion known. It will show that you are an original thinker.
If you go both ways, don't be afraid to tell him of your interest in women as well as men. Aquarian men will always be down to invite more company into his bed. Anything that is deemed unconventional will be a huge turn-on for him.
3 Aquarius Women: Slightly Geeky And/Or Weirdo Types
Aquarian women are quirky, independent and a bit weird compared to the rest of the women in the zodiac. What she is looking for is someone who rebels against the social norms, the anti-fairy tale. She loves nerdy or hipster guys who can strike her fancy with their own quirks. She is community-oriented and has a wide circle of friends that don't conform to the conventional norms of society. You will find that many of them are the leaders of their group and have a rebellious streak much like their male counterparts. They thrive in communities full of weirdos and nerds so that simply means that you will have to be one of them. Be unpredictable and keep them on their toes and be full of surprises. If you fail to do this, the Aquarian woman will get bored and try to seek out someone who is more interesting.
2 Pisces Men: A Person Who Demonstrates Unconditional Love
Pisces men might put up a tough front, but deep down they are the most sensitive souls of the zodiac. No matter how much they say otherwise, they just want to love and be loved at the end of the day. He will be in touch with his intuitive, spiritual side so bond with him on a metaphysical level and you will win his love for life. Make sure you speak to them softly and tenderly without any harshness. Don't be afraid to open up to them emotionally and start needing their support for life's setbacks. For him to feel loved by you and turned on will be for him to know there is no one else who compares to him. He is the ultimate romantic hero so make him feel like he is sweeping you off your feet.
1 Pisces Women: A Person Who Makes Them Dreamy And Delusional
A Pisces woman is a sucker for romance and that fairy tale scenario. She is more vulnerable to fall for liars because they tell her exactly what she wants to hear. More than anything, she just wants someone to sweep her off her feet and show her what it means to be the perfect gentleman. Unfortunately, she is also the type that falls for BS as easily as whispering sweet nothings into her ear. It will make her swoon.
When she falls in love, she expects her man to present her with some sort of mystery or magic. Tell her about mystical lands and faraway places that you can whisk her away to. She is the mushy type and will even fall for the corny rhetoric. The key to he heart will be to embody the fantasy that she dreams about.