The One Characteristic You Both Need In A Partner, Based On Your Sign

Each of us has our own unique sets of needs in what we want out of life. This has a direct impact on what we need in our relationships and everyone has different or even contrasting needs. This is built on the characteristics of the personalities of people that we date. When you look back on a failed relationship of the past, sometimes you realize that your ex wasn't a bad person and neither party really did anything wrong. It was just that they didn't have what you needed and were unable to give it to you and vice versa. For example, some people need a lot of space in relationships where others would rather have their partner around as much as possible. Some people need to feel financially secure and others need to feel emotional support and don't mind if their partner is broke. There those of us that need that constant intellectual stimulation through conversation while others don't mind the peace and quite of silence.

For example, some people need a lot of space in relationships where others would rather have their partner around as much as possible. Some people need to feel financially secure and others need to feel emotional support and don't mind if their partner is broke. There those of us that need that constant intellectual stimulation through conversation while others don't mind the peace and quite of silence.

As the old saying goes, "different strokes for different folks." What each sign of the zodiac needs in their relationships greatly differs from the next sign. Find out the one characteristic you are seeking in a partner based on your zodiac sign:

24 Aries Woman: Independence

Aries women have a lot of aspirations and their sexual appetite is big. She needs to feel like she is not losing her self-identity in a relationship or she will retreat. Don't try to tie her down or change her into being something that she is not or it is a guarantee that it will not work out. When she falls in love, it will seem like she is the most attractive woman on the planet. However insensitive that she may be, she is primarily all woman. She displays her emotions through playful flirting but does not show much patience. Petty mind games need not apply because she will move on quicker than you realize. She has a direct, sexual nature and is willing to do anything to show that sort of affection. Her greatest trick of the trade is that she can dress sexy and not look too slutty. She can break out the red lipstick, mini skirt and show some cleavage and still get away with it.

23 Aries Man: Control

Out of all the men in the zodiac, Aries men are the most self-assured when it comes to their sexuality. He will never be afraid to take initiative and make the first move. He is very proud of himself, his body and his personality and has no apologies about it. Laying in his arms makes it easy for you to feel attractive since he is always willing to get it on… even if you have just rolled out of bed in yesterday's clothes. He thrives on women who feel comfortable in their own bodies and are willing to show them off. As much as he likes to wear the pants and lead you to yours and his destinations, he has little patience for insecurity. He is the alpha male in this relationship but you need to be his alpha woman. Relationships for Aries men can be challenging because he has trouble connecting and would rather do everything alone. It is rare for him to find a partner that has enough energy to keep up and follow his lead.

22 Taurus Woman: Security

When a Taurus lady falls for her man, she will know exactly how to behave. She will be prepared to make sacrifices in order to satisfy the guy that she fell in love with. This will come in a two-way street because she expects the same amount of devotion from her partner. She needs to know that you are the type that is going to stick around and not just leave on a whim's notice. In the beginning, she will examine her new beau just to see if they are really worthy of her feelings. She builds her trust gradually until she reaches a point where she can share her deepest thoughts and emotions. She yearns to be loved and adored. Once you get to know her, there won't be much mystery to her. She will keep her distance for a long time until she decides to open up on her own terms.

21 Taurus Man: Comfort

Taurus men usually lack the initiative to make the first move. Because of this, they can struggle or even put themselves in panic mode when it comes to conquer the woman they desire. There is much conflict between their values and gentle nature. If they finally make the decision to make the first move, it will be after much calculation and observation of how that person is acting towards them. Even though he is secure in his own emotions, he is cautious by nature. If he really loves you, he will take care of you for a long time. He needs his partner to reassure him that he is making the right decision and to make him feel comfortable in his own environment. He might be the type to lie around all day on the couch, so you might have to push him to get out of the house.

20 Gemini Woman: Sharp Wit

Gemini women fall out of love just as quickly as they fall in love. Even if it seems like she is head over heels for a guy, there is no guarantee that her loyalty or emotions will last for a very long time. She is more emotional than she lets on and takes a superficial approach to handling them. She falls for the well-read, intelligent men that can keep her up all night with conversation alone. She knows what she is looking for since she is a mental sign and she can easily trade partners if they are not giving her satisfaction. She is spontaneous and will not stay in a relationship if it doesn't make her happy. She needs the freedom to travel and meet new people all the time so possessive types need not apply. If her partner is insecure in any way, they are going to have a frustrating time with her. If she is allowed to speak her mind and be herself, she is more likely to stay in the relationship.

19 Gemini Man: Openness

Just like the Gemini woman, it is difficult to say how long the relationship will last even when the Gemini man is in love. He responds best with someone with an exciting nature that keeps him guessing and on his toes. If he starts to feel any emotion, he thinks that it will be deep and doesn't think twice about it passing tomorrow or the next day. He lives to be in the moment and it will get on his nerves if his partner is always on him about their long-term future together. It doesn't necessarily mean that he doesn't care, he just never wants to feel tied down. He needs someone who is always going to be open to change because he does not thrive in static environments. Though he isn't the most consistent sign in the zodiac, he will not judge you for anything that you have done in your past. This might also be his biggest downfall because he is the type that can attract the most insane women.

18 Cancer Woman: Paternal Instinct

When a Cancer woman falls in love, her motherly instincts take control over her emotions. She just wants to take care of her man the same way she would her child. Although she can make the distinction between physical attraction and motherly caring relationships, this if often not reciprocated. If she starts dating a guy who does not feel the same way, she is the most vulnerable to get hurt. She has a tendency to give everything to that person with no regards to her own satisfaction. Her unselfishness leads her to give too much and makes her vulnerable to those who might take advantage. What she needs in her man is someone who can match her parenting instincts and take care of her the same way she takes care of everyone else. She has a need to feel protected and needs to know that her partner will step in and keep her away from harm.

17 Cancer Man: Nurturing Tendencies

When a Cancer man falls in love, his insecurities will instantly rise to the surface. He has a strict set of rules of behavior and courtship that they follow that makes them feel safer and more secure. He often fails to realize that what he has to offer counts for a lot even though society seems to favor something else in men. He is sweet and compassionate and cannot hide his emotional side no matter how much he tries. If he is with the right partner, she will understand and appreciate this side. He is sensitive to the emotions of everyone around him and needs a partner that will connect with him on a deep level. He needs a partner who is willing to nurture his need for affection and can handle his emotional mood swings (as they occur frequently). His lady will need to be a woman of patience and unconditional love, much like his mother.

16 Leo Woman: To Feel Like A Princess

If a Leo woman is falling for you, then her entire world will revolve around you. Though she is self-involved when she is single, you will have 100% of her attention if she is into you. Leo is ruled by the sun which represents the self, but their sun will sway in your direction if they fall in love. Her feelings will be warm and passionate. She can be a bit of a drama queen as you will fall into the pattern of fighting, making up, getting it on and holding her in your embrace for as long as possible. What she needs is someone who will hold her on a pedestal and see her as the most beautiful woman in the world. She wants to be seen as someone to whom no other woman compares. She is not always easy to date as the commitment to her comes with many expectations on her end. In some cases, she will be extremely committed. In other cases, she will be focused on herself, her career or other people around her. This is a woman who knows what she wants, and will not change her mind.

15 Leo Man: Admiration

A Leo man is warm and cuddly when you and him make the decision to be an official item. Think of him as a tamed lion, purring and needing room to sit in someone's lap. Your love for him will strengthen his ego. Make sure that you keep up the chase and keep him out of your bed for as long as possible if you want to maintain his interest. Leos are like predators hunting for their prey and enjoy the thrill of the challenge. Just bear in mind that he has a fragile ego and needs to hear positive reinforcement in the form of compliments and reassurance from his partner. When he is in love, he will go out of his way to show how gallant, confident and heroic he is. He will show off to get your attention and won't stop trying to make you laugh. He has a surrounding of admirers and you need to be his biggest admirer or else he might find someone else who is.

14 Virgo Woman: Patience

When a Virgo woman gets into a relationship, she will be apprehensive at first. She will be so shy that it might be impossible for her to start a new relationship in the first place. What she needs is a partner who will sweep her off her feet by making the first move. This makes her feel her most attractive and feminine. There are some Virgo women that are able to approach someone casually and subtly flirt, but they often will not end up dating that person because they haven't been direct enough. What she needs is someone who is patient enough to sit through her indecision as to how she wants to approach the relationship whether it be serious or casual. She is one of the most practical people you will ever meet. She will have no problem cooking, cleaning and doing the laundry for you. This is almost a compulsion and needs to be reminded that she doesn't need to do everything on her own.

13 Virgo Man: Validation

When a Virgo man falls for his partner, he will always be asking himself whether or not he is really in love or if its just an illusion. He can be difficult to be with because he is strict in his expectations but he also has insecure emotions at the same time. Though he is loyal in his friendships, he rarely lasts in romantic relationships until he meets someone who meets his high standard of perfection. (Or at least, until he gives up and settles for the best partner he can find). Depending on what you seek in a partner, a Virgo man can be satisfying or just flat out annoying. Though he is a dedicated dude, he is also ruled by Mercury which means that he has a double side that cannot be trusted. He likes routine and that can make him demanding in a relationship. To everyone else, he can come off as a high strung pain in the butt, but he needs you to tell him that his expectations are realistic. He needs someone to take care of him and validate his personal opinions.

12 Libra Woman: Traditional Romance

Libra women are in love with the idea of being in love. They will indulge in any excuse to get dressed up, go out to a 5-star restaurant and be wooed over a candlelight dinner. Ruled by Venus, she is a lover of beauty and elegance. She will even try to fall out of love if the person she is dating acts in a socially unacceptable manner. She can be indecisive when it comes to the partners she chooses and oftentimes, they overlap. Libra women will be the type that will be seeing or talking to 2-3 guys at the same time while hitting up Tinder on their lunch breaks. She can find herself always questioning her decision to be in a relationship so consider yourself special if she seems more sure in her decision to be with you. When she is with the right person who has romanced her, she will be committed and loyal. Otherwise, she will look to other options.

11 Libra Man: Fairness

A Libra man is evaluating any pretty lady who crosses his path as potential girlfriend material when he is single. He thrives on the feeling of dependence on feeling attractive and loved when it comes to women. If he is dating someone that he is in love with, he will see her as someone he is going to marry. At the beginning of a relationship, a Libra man can move to fast to the point where it might even scare his partner away. He is not the type to waste time on relationships that have no future or no depth. At the same time, he expects his partner to not waste his time if they don't see the relationship getting serious. In casual circumstances, he doesn't mind open relationships as long as it goes in a two-way street. When he is in a serious relationship, he doesn't give up at the first sign of difficulty, but he hates conflict at the same time. He has a tendency to put too much focus on his partner rather than himself so remind him that it's ok to be selfish once in awhile.

10 Scorpio Woman: Mystery

A Scorpio woman is born under a sign whose intentions and inner emotional states often go misunderstood. She is easily dismissed by people that are judgmental and chose to run away rather than take the time to understand her. She is a water sign and represents the depth of feminine emotions which are sexual and founded in the core of the Earth. She shows her love through actions, not words which can mislead her partner into believing that she doesn't care. She is a sexual being but will not tease unless she wants to get seriously involved. Her intentions and love will be clear and that can be where she gets hurt. She often finds herself at odds between her mind and her heart, and her relationships tend to jump from one extreme to another. Her partner needs to have a way of communicating without words and an air of mystery. If she sees that you are just as deep as she is, she will be intrigued and want to take the relationship to the next level.

9 Scorpio Man: Something To Corrupt

A Scorpio man is an all or nothing kind of guy when it comes to his relationships. He yearns for that iconic relationship that transcends time (like Sid and Nancy, Prince William and Kate, or Bonnie and Clyde). He needs to be a part of a power couple. He is looking for both a trophy wife and a soulmate all rolled into one. He is typically attracted to the "salt of the earth" types of women who seem innocent, but not too naîve. His ideal girl will be the queen to his empire while he shows her the devious ways to navigate power and manipulate people to get there. A Scorpio man is someone where is emotions run deep but he will never wear them on his sleeve. You will just be sucked into that piercing gaze of his. He isn't quick to trust right off the bat so give him some time to realize that you are trustworthy. Once you gain his long-awaited trust, you should be home free.

8 Sagittarius Woman: Adventure

When a Sagittarius woman falls in love, she does so quickly and passionately. She is attracted to guys who can show her all walks of life and communicate with her fluidly. Even if she didn't have strong feelings to begin with, her optimism tells her that every guy is a potential mate, even if it won't work out for the long term. She can easily be tricked if someone gives the impression that they will make her happy. She thrives on deep conversations and new experiences. If someone can offer that to her, then they are golden. In relationships, she truly wants to believe in the good of humanity and does not rest until those around her are happy. She knows how to roll with the punches and deal with the unpredictability that life has to offer. She is happiest when her partner has given her some sort of personal growth or life lesson to live by.

7 Sagittarius Man: Spontaneity

A Sagittarius man is a fun-loving, jovial sign who everyone generally likes to be around. He has an upbeat energy and is the type who will cheer you up when you are feeling down. Since he is never boring in personality, he gets bored easily. He has a tendency to jump from partner to partner if they don't provide him with some sort of excitement that he is always craving. He has itchy feet and is always traveling from place to place seeking the next adventure. The best way to get a Sagittarius man to fall for you is to never make plans and hit him up at the last minute. He thrives on spontaneity and this approach will keep him on his toes. Show that you are the philosophical type by talking about your foreign travels. You get bonus points if you come from a culture exotic to his own.

6 Capricorn Woman: Ambition

The Capricorn woman is cautious as to who she reveals her emotions to. In relationships, she will have to face her own feelings before she can actually enjoy the relationship. Out of all the women in the zodiac, she knows how to choose her men wisely. She puts much thought into who she dates and is careful to not make the "wrong" decision. Capricorn ladies have a strong sense of responsibility with they hold as a top priority. Because of this, you will not finding her taking any risks and usually choosing the safest route to go. Her need to always make rational decisions can leave her feeling unsatisfied, as if she is missing out on life's adventures. That said, she needs a partner who has their sh** together. She has a need to stay loyal and will expect the same from her partner. The relationship has to make sense from a practical and moral standpoint. Once she becomes disappointed, she is likely to leave.

5 Capricorn Man: Class

A Capricorn man is someone who has his act together and has a stellar reputation in his professional and personal life. Once he falls in love, this poise is thrown off balance and he starts to act strange. This is a man who is not familiar with emotions, even his own. He will feel as if some demi-goddess has come down to this earth from her space ship to confuse him. Usually, this feeling passes with his first and second love, but he will still have that offbeat demeanor when he falls for someone else again. He needs someone who makes him look like a million bucks out in public. He can be difficult to date as he is strict in his expectations which can be difficult, if not impossible to meet. A Capricorn man needs a partner who carries themselves with dignity and self-respect. If he loves you, there is nothing that he wouldn't do for you. If he doesn't, he will see you as an inconvenience.

4 Aquarius Woman: Eccentricity

An Aquarius woman needs someone who will let her be her true, unadulterated self. This means that she will not have any restrictions and is free to be herself in any circumstance. When she falls in love, she secretly fears that she will lose her personality to another influence. She will resent any expectation that morphs her into something that she is not. What she seeks in a partner is someone who is interesting enough to stand out from the crowd and does not care about the taboos of modern society. An Aquarian woman will be exciting, unpredictable and a bit unstable. If you are looking for someone traditional and all-American, then do not go near an Aquarian lady. These are the types of women who will not fit the formal conventions of a relationship defined by society. She hates to be tied down and can only be swept off her feet if her partner loves her for her uniqueness. She will fall for the guy who is quirky, offbeat and rebellious.

3 Aquarius Man: Submission

Aquarian men are unpredictable and live for the thrill of shocking people with their unorthodox behavior. In the bedroom, there is nothing that they do not want to experiment with or at least try once. At the same time, they are opinionated and might appreciate a good debate, just not from the object of their affection. When these men fall in love, they will now show it and you might not even know it. He is detached and unemotional so he finds alternative ways into expressing his love. Usually, he does this through unpredictable and exciting means that will keep his partner on their toes. Though he is not hurt that easily, he does not take kindly to disrespect, especially if you try to define one of his deep-rooted moral standpoints. He has a strong personality and it will take someone who is willing to follow in order for the relationship to work.

2 Pisces Woman: Spiritual Connection

This sign is exalted by Venus so that means Pisces typically have the most magical experiences when it comes to falling in love. When a Pisces woman falls in love, she will feel excited, inspired and mesmerized. All of the sudden, the world will stop and she will see her purpose in life with this partner. It will seem like she has reverted back to her childhood, acting like a little girl because this new partner could be The One. What she is seeking in a partner is someone who will connect with her on a deep and spiritual level that goes beyond the spoken word. She will have the ability to bring inspiration and new found optimism to the perspective of her partner because she will take them away to a dream land that they never knew existed. However, she will change her mind about her partner if she feels disrespected or taken for granted in any way.

1 Pisces Man: The Girl Of His Dreams

The Pisces man is a hopeless romantic and has a tendency to believe that he has found the love of his life every time that he falls in love. This will be true for only one of his loves, but not for all of them. Every relationship for him will be drastically different than the previous one. When he does meet The One, there will be wind blowing in her hair and angels singing. He loves his ladies with a full heart and doesn't hold back in the romance department. He will go out of his way to make his lady feel special and adored. He will be devoted as long as these feelings don't fade away. His partner will most likely have to be the stable one in the relationship since his sense of romance makes him impulsive. His direction is a bit chaotic, but exciting at the same time.