The Absolute Top Turn Offs (Him & Her), Based On Astrology
Being in the dating scene can just be as much fun as it is frustrating. Sometimes we start seeing someone and it seems like they have just disappeared out of thin air. The texts, FaceTime calls, and Facebook messages just seem to come to a screeching halt. You are then left to wonder; "Is is something that I did or said?" Without any warning, bae has just disappeared off of the face of the earth. In all honesty, it was probably not just one thing that you did or said, but a series of behavior that they picked up on. They got to know you on a personal level and then decided that you were just not the one for them.
Jumping through the hoops of dating can be an unnerving game of trial and error. Deciphering what makes your potential love interest tick can be just as tricky as it is intriguing. To help navigate dating better, it is best to find out what the turn offs are for each individual. This can be confusing, but let this be a field guide to decipher what a certain sign likes. Behold, here are the absolute turn offs for each sign according to their gender:
24 Aries Men: Clingy, Emotional Needy Types
Aries is a passionate and independent sign that wants to go off and do their own thing. It doesn't matter if they are single or in a relationship, they just want their space and freedom to do what they love. Anyone who is all up in their business and wants to attach to them like a conjoined twin will be a huge repellent for the Aries man. If you are insecure and need him to be your sole emotional support system for when things go wrong, he will not want to get it on anymore. Even for an Aries man who has the highest sensual drive out of all the men in the zodiac, he will write you off as being thirsty if you want it too much.
23 Aries Women: Cockiness And Lack Of Humility
Aries women tend to be fierce feminists and have no problem taking charge in the relationship. While they are attracted to the rugged types, they cannot stand a guy who is going to mansplain them. Since her goal isn't really to fall in love per se, she doesn't get off on the traditional gender roles in society. What she needs is someone to be her companion through life's adventures, not a father figure who bosses her around at every corner. She needs a special someone who will be by her side in all of the physical activities she thrives in and maybe a little healthy competition will go a long way. If you can give her attention without being condescending, you will earn her respect and affection.
22 Taurus Men: Demanding, Superficial People
The Taurus man wishes to possess his partner and has a way of getting what he wants. Since he doesn't have a specific "type" of lady he goes for, he is open to all types. This means that he expects the same from his partner. He needs to know that you are not just into him for his looks, wealth or status. Since he has a specified comfort zone, anyone who tries to bring him out of it will be seen as controlling. The Taurus dude would rather settle for the cute girl who will always be there for him than the knockout who is there at her convenience. Above all, Taurus men value loyalty and dependability in their women rather than some superficial fling that will be short-lived.
21 Taurus Women: Bad Taste In Fashion, Music, Movies Or Anything In General
The Taurus woman is sensual and appreciates the finer things in life. She is more visual than the average woman and will notice your complimentary attributes as well as your flaws. She has an eclectic taste in movies, music, and fashion. She appreciates anyone who can stimulate that side of her. If your tastes and interests don't align with hers, she is likely to feel disconnected. Her impeccable attire must be matched by someone who can maintain a polished appearance. Slobs need not apply. This woman will be the first to notice your thousand dollar suit or expensive car that you drive. She needs a man refined taste and someone who knows how to present himself in a way that impresses other people around him.
20 Gemini Men: Boring, Monotonous Personalities
A Gemini man is an operator who is always in motion either mentally or physically. Any woman who gets involved with the Gemini dude had better fasten their seat belts for a wild ride. Anyone who moves at a slower, steady pace will find him overwhelming and he will find them boring. Though he appreciates someone who is mild-mannered, you cannot lock him down into a domesticated life. If there is a party going on, you better believe that he will be there. You need to keep him on his toes guessing, otherwise, he will get bored and find someone else who is more exciting. Anything that keeps him in the same routine will make him extremely bored and wondering what else is out there.
19 Gemini Women: People With No Sense Of Humor
A Gemini woman will have a bubbly personality and is usually seen as a social butterfly. At parties, you will spot her floating around chatting it up with just about everyone. It takes a special type of guy to hold her interest for longer than five minutes. If you fail to make her laugh or tickle her funny bone, she will keep at it until she can find a guy who entertains her. She has a short attention span so it will take someone with a lot of character to keep her from getting bored (much like her male counterpart). You will know that she will keep her around if you hear that infectious laugh and inviting smile. She is a social creature and needs someone who is just as open to meeting new people as she is. If you are a hermit, don't even waste your time with a Gemini woman.
18 Cancer Men: Head Games And Inconsideration
Cancer men are highly emotional and need a woman who will nurture them. If you are the coquettish type that likes to play games and toy with emotions, rest assured that it will not work on a Cancer man. At heart, he is traditional and it seeking someone that will be his lifelong partner. If you are talking to multiple guys while dating him, he will simply not be having it. They are not into immature party girls and would rather enjoy a quiet evening in. He is a domesticated creature and needs someone to share that home life with. Unlike the sign before him, he has no problem escaping into being a recluse and shutting out the outside world. A Cancer man needs someone who is willing to be in his shell with him, not someone who wants to take him out of the shell.
17 Cancer Women: Flakiness And Insincerity
A Cancer woman needs someone who will provide her with the security that she yearns for. If you schedule a date with this lady, you better follow through and make it an experience to remember. She needs you to be genuine in your intentions. If you come off as someone who is just trying to get in her pants, then she will walk away and never look back. She is one of the most intuitive women of all the zodiac and will see through your BS. Act like a gentleman to be in her good graces or it is best just to walk away altogether. This girl does not enjoy mind games because it takes away from that number one quality that she is looking for, which is someone who seems like he will be in it for the long haul.
16 Leo Men: Indifference And Lack Of Enthusiasm
Leo men love to be in the spotlight and people who help put them there. Making them feel like they are not special and just like everyone else is the ultimate kiss of death. Any sign of indifference towards him will be a huge turn-off and he will seek out attention elsewhere. If there is no excitement from you when he enters a room, you will make him a sad little lion. The key is to make him feel important. Treat him like a king and you will be his reigning queen without ever having to worry about losing his loyalty. On the flip side, if you treat him like any other Average Joe walking down the street, he will feel resentful and inadequate. A sulky Leo is a Leo that you don't want to deal with.
15 Leo Women: No Attention Or Distraction From Her
Much like the Leo man, the Leo woman loves to be the center of attention (whether she wants to admit it or not). When she gets dolled up, you better compliment her or she will take it as a personal insult. When you two are supposed to spend quality time together, make sure you are texting on your phone or playing video games. If you do not focus on her, then she will focus elsewhere. She is a proud woman and needs positive reinforcement in her life or she might feel a bit insecure. Show her the attention she needs and it will make her happy. Make her feel like she is in the spotlight and has the ability to light up a room with her presence and she will melt in your arms.
14 Virgo Men: Lack Of Intellect And Inarticulate Types
A Virgo man is a practical and intellectual creature who needs someone who can keep up with him. Since they are ruled by Mercury, their minds are comfortably surrounded by logic and factual information. If the way you communicate is using the word "like" in every other sentence, then your fling with him will be short-lived. Virgo dudes love to share everything that they know. If you show ignorance to what they are talking about, they will lose interest quickly. Stupid girls needs not apply if they are going to date a Virgo man (unless you only want a one nighter). This guy is a fountain full of knowledge and needs someone to share it with and someone who can keep up with him, whether she likes it or not.
13 Virgo Women: Big Egos And Arrogance
Virgo women err on the reserved side and shy away from the spotlight. As such, they are not into guys who have big egos that need validation. They will be quick to make a negative assessment if you walk around like you are God's gift to women. They have no problem laying on the criticism on thick and putting you in your place if you give her too much cocky attitude. Arrogance and a big ego is just too much for her timid nature to bear. Humility is the key to a Virgo woman's heart. A subtle, down-to-earth attitude is a much better approach with her. Anyone who comes off as a brainless bro is sure to find himself heading towards the door faster than he realizes.
12 Libra Men: Not Supporting Their Beliefs And Lack Of Agreement
Libra men are the most non-confrontational guys in the zodiac and tend to be attracted to more agreeable types. They absolutely hate drama and people who stir the pot for no reason. Since they are not the most independent types, they need to know that their opinions are validated. If you disagree with them too often, they will feel disharmony in the relationship. It is always best to be on the same page as him as often as possible. Never start an argument with a Libra man because not only can he not stand it but he will shut you down with his diplomacy. Even when he knows deep down that he is wrong, it will seem like he is right. The best course of action is just to agree with him on matters that are important to him.
11 Libra Women: An Unkempt Appearance
Ruled by Venus, the planet of beauty, Libra women are big on aesthetics. You don't need to be dressed to the nines at casual events, but they do appreciate a clean-shaven, polished appearance. Don't keep a messy home or appearance if you want to impress a Libra lady. Make sure to stay on top of your grooming game and she will definitely take notice. Make sure you come off as uncluttered and stylish and she will swoon. You will earn double points if you show her how articulate and well-spoken you are. He loves a guy with a debonair quality about him who can just come in a sweep her off her feet. You don't even have to be that good looking, just show that you can take care of your appearance.
10 Scorpio Men: Teasing Or Using Him For Something
Scorpio men are ruled by Mars, the planet of aggression and Pluto, the mysterious planet of control. This means that they are sensual creatures and usually get action when they seek it. If you act like you want it and don't give it up, they will not be able to handle the frustration and sensual tension on any level. They will write you off as someone who is just using them to get what you want. Since they are used to being in control, you trying to toy with them will tick them off. If you are coming onto a Scorpio, it is better to follow through on your actions. Anything that involves arousing him without him getting any satisfaction will lead him to ghost you.
9 Scorpio Women: Liars And Players
A Scorpio woman can smell BS a mile away and will know when you have ulterior motives. She will also know if she is part of a rotation between her and other women. Honesty is the best policy when dealing with women born under this sign. Sugar-coating will surely backfire. Like detectives, Scorpios will notice little details that others won't and will be the first to catch your deceit. No matter how much you think the truth hurts, she will respect you for telling it, in the end, more so than not. No one is clever enough to pull the wool over her eyes. Even the ones that do will surely regret it later because she will find a way to get back at you.
8 Sagittarius Men: The Homebody
Sagittarius is ruled by Jupiter, the planet of expansion. This means he lives to roam the world and thrives on new experiences. A Netflix and chill type of night will bore him to tears because it will give him a horrible case of FOMO. Imposing a curfew on him will be the kiss of death in the relationship. His restless spirit needs to move around and be stimulated on a consistent basis. If you pressure him to settle down, he will flee far away from you. Freedom is his middle name and any restrictions on that will not be welcomed. Show him how fun-loving you really are and be willing to follow along when he invites you to go out on wild adventures. You need to have a certain level of high energy in order to keep up with him.
7 Sagittarius Women: Someone Who Is Shallow
To a Sagittarius woman, there is nothing more pointless and banal than small talk. Talking about the weather or some everyday routine will make her lose interest. She lives for those late night philosophical conversations after a few drinks in her system. To her, everything is a new learning experience. She wants to explore the world like her male counterpart and wants to have stories to tell her grandchildren. If her mental state is not stimulated, then neither is she. Be someone who (at least seems to be) worldly and cultured or you will get the boot faster than your head will spin. Impress her by sharing your stories of travel and crazy nights with her. She will be entertained and left wanting to get to know you more.
6 Capricorn Men: Someone Who Is Fake And Obnoxious
Above all, Capricorn men value their image and reputation. Therefore, they need someone who is of high quality and make them look good in public. Capricorn men want a classy broad who appears elegant, mature and has her act together. Not being able to hold your alcohol, making rude comments or acting in a loud, brash way will be the biggest turn off for him. To be with a Capricorn man, you need to be someone who knows how to keep your emotions in check. You can't have public arguments or meltdown because it will make tarnish his reputation, which is his worst fear. Be lady and embody the persona of elegance and sophistication as much as possible. This will make you the apple of his eye for some time to come.
5 Capricorn Women: Not Sharing Her Personal Values
Capricorn women are ruled by Saturn, the planet of restriction and discipline. As such, they have a very specific idea of who they are looking for in a long-term partner. These women are both family-oriented and career-oriented. They want someone who is close with their family and is ambitious at the same time. If you lacking in these departments, your days will be numbered. Out of all the women in the zodiac, a Capricorn woman knows exactly what she wants and has no problem cutting her losses when she needs to. The suitor of a Capricorn woman is definitely someone who needs to have their act together and have their own family values. Judgement day will be when you both meet each other's families for the first time.
4 Aquarius Men: Being Too Basic Or Pushy
Aquarian men are ruled by Uranus (no pun intended) which is the planet of unpredictability and revolution. Because of that, they are attracted to rebellious types. If you are too predictable and seem to conform to society's standards, then he will get bored very easily. Pushing him into commitment or something that he doesn't want to do will push his buttons (and not in a good way). Cultivate an air of mystery, don't ever go with the grain if you want to impress him. If your tastes are too basic and you seem like every other girl on the block, you will probably be dumped. Don't be afraid to admit that you were not the popular girl in school or that sometimes you feel like you don't fit in. Aquarian dudes get off on that kind of thing.
3 Aquarius Women: Codependency And Blowing Up Her Phone
Aquarian women are arguably the most independent of all women in the zodiac. If they are not given space and are dealing with a clingy partner, that will get old very fast. Keep her on her toes and don't text her every day. Show her that you can go off and do your own thing without her. Make her miss you, not the other way around. Since she is used to being showered with attention from her indifference, this will be a definite change of pace for her. Appeal to her quirky side and have some strange quality about you. Be the anti all-American boy and make it seem like you were the emo kid in high school that never was one of the guys. She will eat that up like candy.
2 Pisces Men: Overly Extravagant Or Indulgent
A Pisces man will be the last to care about what brand you are wearing or how much your car cost. If you show any inkling that you are materialistic, that will not impress him. Pisces men are sort of the hippies of the zodiac who do not value wealth like some of the other signs. Pressuring them to dress better, drive a nicer car or become more sophisticated in any way will be your exit to the door. They live on in a spiritual existence, not a physical one. Show that you don't care about the "finer things in life" and that will impress them. Talk about your spiritual beliefs (even if you don't have any) and they will fall for you as if there were no other woman on Earth.
1 Pisces Women: Abrasiveness And Lack Of Hygiene
The Pisces woman is the most sensitive of all women in the zodiac. Her delicate nature makes her extra emotional to anyone who is loud and makes harsh comments. She wants someone who is quiet and understated. Any unkempt appearance or hint that you haven't showered recently will nauseate her. Just take care of yourself, mind your manners and you should be home free. Be attentive and listen to her rather than just pretending to listen to her. Be soft-spoken in your approach or even come off as a bit shy. She will be overwhelmed by guys with in-your-face personalities, so it is best to just approach her personally and softly. Listen to what she has to say and really listen. Don't just pretend to listen.
