How Likely You Are To Be Alone Forever, Based On Astrology

Do you ever wonder if you're destined to never find love? What if it really is harder for you to find love than your friends? There always seems to be that one person that finds love in an instant, but you couldn't find a date to save your life. As it turns out, the stars might have something to do with this. Some signs are far more likely to end up alone forever than others, and there's a chance you might be one of the unlucky ones. The “it's not you, it's me,” excuse is about to take on a whole new meaning. Is it impossible for you not to find love, or is it all too real that loneliness might be your fate? We also included the male Zodiac signs most likely to leave you, so avoid them if you want to increase your chances of finding love. Here is how likely you are to end up alone forever, based on your Zodiac sign. Your future might be looking brighter… unless it gets a whole lot lonelier.

15 Taurus: It's very possible

The truth might hurt, but you're not that shocked. Finding long lasting love for you is difficult for a major flaw that you understand too well - your stubbornness. In love, you have to be flexible and consistently keeping your mind open, but that isn't easy for you to do. It's against the very nature of who you are. You have to give up a bit of your independence in a serious relationship, but you hold on to your independence dearly. You feel like it's what makes you who you are. While there is probably someone out there that will gel harmoniously with you, and you won't need to change your stubbornness for them, it'll take a lot of failure in love to find the one. It's very possible that you might end up alone forever. You're so independent that this reality isn't crippling… but it might make you look in the mirror and make you want to learn how to be flexible.

14 Gemini: It's nearly guaranteed

You saw this fate coming. It's plain and simple on the surface: commitment isn't for you. While you'll always have lovers gliding in and out of your life, you'll never settle down and truly find the one. Maybe you're content with that. Maybe never really having a companion is what you want. Due to your indecisiveness, it is nearly guaranteed you will be alone throughout most of your life, with random lovers filling parts of the void. You'll struggle to get serious with anyone, however, because your restlessness is like an incurable disease. If there's any chance that they'll hold you down, you'll run for the hills. If you get lucky, you could find another soul that holds a wanderlust that feeds your indecision with ease. When you know you don't have to commit to the future, and only the here and now, that's when you might beat the odds.

13 Capricorn: It could go either way

Your love life is epitomized by the flip of the coin. On one side, you're one of the two parental signs in the Zodiac, which means your desire to have a family often leads you to finding love… even though it might not be the happiest of romances. On the other side, your inability to reinvent yourself means your partners have a tendency to get bored with you. In order to find love, you need to rid yourself of your inhibitions, become more open and imaginative, and stop being so nagging and cold once the honeymoon stage is over. If you can get through that using your determination, love will find you. Your deepest struggle is understanding how to keep the spark alive, which is why it feels like your chances of love depend on an unpredictable fire. While the chances of you being alone forever are fifty fifty, you have the power to sway the possibilities either way.

12 Aquarius: There's a small chance

You're a very sought out partner, because you're naturally very smart, thoughtful, and uniquely original. You're talented at so many things, it comes to a shock to many people that relationships can be majorly challenging for you. Why? You hold all of your emotions in, and rarely ever express them, which often means disaster for a relationship. If you're dating someone who is romantic and openly loving, it will never work out. You need someone mature, stoic, and wise to understand your complicated way of love. Luckily, there's much more of a chance of you finding someone with the patience to learn how to understand you then there is of you being lonely forever. You ought to count it as a blessing that you're so endearing on the surface, because otherwise, breaking through your emotional barrier might not be worth it to your lovers. If you keep in mind that communication is the most important part of a relationship, you should be able to keep it alive.

11 Virgo: You make it difficult for yourself

When it comes to love, shooting yourself in the foot is your speciality. You do it again, and again, and again. Hey, at least you're consistent. People love to be in a relationship with you because you're hardworking and practical. You'll make all the plans, handle all the finances, you're so happy to be in charge of it all. The problem is, you never get to the stage in a relationship where they see that side of you, because you won't come out of your shell. Love requires vulnerability, and you might as well be allergic to it. You get stuck in routines, you fear change, and that destroys love before it even begins. Unless you realize you're the one responsible for constantly destroying your love life, you'll end up alone. The likelihood of it depends on how adept you are at understanding your flaws, even if you don't like to admit you have any.

10 Scorpio: Unlikely, but at a cost

You're too passionate to ever be without love. You're practically addicted to it, but your fatal flaws can easily make it an unhealthy addiction. That passion is infused with a dark side that's filled with jealousy, obsession, and manipulation. There's not much of a question about you finding love; it'll inevitably happen, and you won't be alone. The question is whether or not it will be a healthy love, and that's a scarier question than if you'll end up alone or not. There's a possibility you could live your life with a partner in an extremely unhealthy relationship, unless you recognize your bad behavior when it comes to love. This also means you need to find someone that is open, vulnerable, and sensitive; those are traits that won't incite your dark personality to come out. You won't end up alone, but it will come at a cost unless you find the right person. Not everyone can handle you.

9 Leo: It won't be your fate

You need a relationship to fulfill important parts of who you are, so being alone forever will not be your destiny. You're extremely talented, but you find you're not recognized for it in the way you desire to be. This is why you seek out relationships constantly, because the gratification it gives you is crucial to your happiness. The problem with this is that you have the tendency to settle, which leaves a lot to be desired in your love life. You just can't find the patience to hold out for your soulmate, because you're worried that they might not come around. So while it's highly unlikely you'll be alone forever, the quality of your love life will be up in the air. Your best bet is to surround yourself with friends and family that will validate you the way you need to be, and that way, you'll have the patience to wait for the right person.

8 Aries: A rare but real possibility

For all of your charm and confidence, your inability to listen often takes your lovers by surprise. It's like what they say to you goes through one ear and out the next, and it's why your relationships end abruptly to your astonishment, as you thought everything was going well. You steamrolled your partner, and unless you catch on to the trend, you'll be alone forever. The possibility of you being lonely to the end of your days is so real because if you don't understand that you need to be a better listener and not always take charge, it will be very unlikely you'll find someone that can deal with that. If your partner is quiet and slow to anger, your gregarious personality might suck the life out of them. However, you're intelligent enough to reflect on your flaws, and you'll catch on to what you're doing wrong. After that, your love life will be perfect.

7 Cancer: Impossible

You'll find love without a doubt. You're the mother of the Zodiac, and that parental side of you means love comes naturally to you in the most beautiful form. You give yourself entirely in a relationship, and anyone in a partnership with you can count themselves blessed. You're generous with every essence of who you are, and you're willing to give anything to the person you love, which is why you attract suitors like moths to a light. However, while nothing is truly impossible, there's always the minute possibility that if you're too immature and smother the wrong partner too much, you might have some bad luck out of the gate. You might think there's something wrong with you and that you'll never find love, but with time as you grow confident in yourself, your ability to be the most loving partner possible will blossom. The world might end before you end up alone.

6 Pisces: Only if you let it happen

You're one of the only signs that holds the destiny of their love in their palms. What fateful decision might define your future, you might ask? The only reason you wouldn't find love would be if you let people pass you by without showing them how valuable you are. You're patient, quiet, and in your own little dreamworld. You're also very mysterious and secretive. Because of this, you often get overlooked, simply because you keep yourself veiled in mystery and don't show people how truly beautiful you are inside and out. When you find someone that you want to show who you really are, they'll fall for you instantly. There's almost no chance that you'll be alone forever, but you're in control of that fate. You're compassionate, loving, and devoted to a fault; no one could deny what a dream you are to have. You would do anything for your lover.

5 Libra: Unlikelier than many

You're an expert when it comes to social interaction. You're gracious and diplomatic, which makes it easy for you to make and keep relationships. So why does your love life seem to fizzle out all the time? It's because you hate confrontation, which leads to a grudge. That grudge leaves to pent up feelings of resentment, and suddenly your relationship completely implodes. There's a risk that this could happen for the rest of your life if you don't get a handle on it. If you don't teach yourself that the conversation will never be as bad as you think it will be, you'll be alone forever. You're an amazing partner to have, but this is your fatal flaw, and it has the power to define your love life. You want your relationship to be harmonious, but you're seriously mistaken if you think you can keep it that way by sweeping problems under the rug. You have to change this, otherwise the chance of you being lonely will grow larger and larger.

4 Sagittarius: Far likelier than most

There is a very specific kind of person that is right for you. Unfortunately, that type of person might be difficult to find. While you're outgoing, hilarious, and attract people easily, you lack a certain tact. What's off boundaries for many, isn't off boundaries for you. You put people off because you accidentally hurt their feelings too often. Along with this, you become unhappy very quickly if you're not being constantly stimulated. You can get very flighty in a relationship if they want to settle down before you're ready. Essentially, the type of person you need to have a successful love life with, isn't easy to find. Therefore, your chances of being alone forever are greater than you wish they were. You're independent, so maybe you don't mind, but it never feels like your potential lovers have a thick enough skin. If you increase the amount of love and affection you give your partners, it'll reassure them, and it's less likely you'll end up alone.

Here are the guys who are most likely to leave you based on their sign:

3 Third Most Likely To Leave You: Gemini

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Bonus! If you're worried about your chances of being alone forever, these are the men to avoid. A Gemini man is not dependable or reliable - they're literally the opposite. If you expect consistency, like for his love to last forever, it's totally unlikely. Even if you think your relationship is stable, that could change on a dime for a Gemini man. His love flits through the seasons, and when it hits winter, you'll notice his passion for you will grow cold. It's almost impossible for you to expect a long lasting relationship with a Gemini man, so if you fear loneliness, you're totally risking a life of that if you try to make it work with a Gemini. That's not to say there isn't hope - on rare occasions, a Gemini might decide to settle down, and while the relationship will be far from perfect, at least you won't be alone. If you fear being alone forever, avoid dating a Gemini man at all costs, otherwise your sealing your fate of sadness.

2 Second Most Likely To Leave You: Aquarius

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He doesn't fear commitment like a Gemini man does, but that will make the heartache all the more painful because the break up will be incredibly personal. That describes what these Aquarius men are like. They take everything personally because he is ruled by the Sun, which causes him to be vulnerable and struggle with issues like respect. You'll feel like you're walking on thin ice around him, and even though you tread carefully, the relationship will inevitably end. He's almost guaranteed to leave you on your own. Even the strongest of women will struggle to understand why he's always distant and detached, and the fact that he can't communicate well will make it much harder. If you're already likely to end up alone as it is, and you want to increase your chances of finding love, avoid an Aquarius man. It's far too probable that the relationship will be too difficult to make work.

1 Most Likely To Leave You: Sagittarius

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He falls in love too fast and too easily. You'll be the flavor of the month, and while it comes across like he's head over heels for you, he'll wake up one morning and forget you ever existed. Completely unstable in relationships, a Sagittarius will never be the type to settle down with one woman. No matter how secure he makes you feel, it's all a facade. A mutable sign ruled by fire means he's almost impossible to contain. If he finds a partner that can keep up with him, then his personality and habits in love may change surprisingly, but if you don't fit the description it's almost guaranteed that his feelings for you aren't forever. He'll wake up one morning and feel completely different. A Sagittarius man is the least stable of all the Zodiac signs when it comes to long term relationships. If you're willing to take the chance or believe you have what it takes to tie him down, you could be risking your love life forever.