15 Women Confess Secrets She Is Keeping From Him

Do you have a secret? Not a small "I have a crush on X" kind of secret, but a big one with real consequences that can possibly change your life? Relax, we all have our fair share of secrets we plan to keep inside forever. Some are only temporary, such as keeping quiet about an upcoming surprise party, while others are so deep and so dark, they must never see the light of day. It's these secrets that can never be discovered, or they'll bring shame, pain, loss or brokenness to their host.

So you have a horrible secret and you also have a boyfriend. Do you trust he can keep your secret or do you keep quiet? How bad does a secret have to be to keep it from the one person you love most in the world? Many people are capable of keeping secrets forever, and these fifteen women are some of them. They can't tell their boyfriend's their terrible awful secrets because the truth will do anything but set them free. How bad are these secrets really and if you were in their shoes, would you be able to tell your significant other? Think about it while you read the deep dark secrets fifteen women are keeping from their men.

15 Why Would You Do That?

Seriously though, why would you do that? Do you still have lingering feelings for your first love? Do you care for him so much that you want to say his name every single day? Even if your husband doesn't know who you named your son after, be sure some family members and friends (who were around when you were infatuated with your first love) are thinking you went too far.

Let's just hope your husband never discovers the truth because that is going to sting. It'll bring up all kinds of questions, the main one being, "Do you really love me?" and possibly thoughts of "Am I not enough?" Learn from this woman ladies. It's okay to look back on your first love with a smile, but don't take things to the next level.

14 You Monster

Very little is worse than separating a man from his dog. Much like children, dogs are innocent. They only know how to love and offer it freely. If the dog makes a mess every day, then train it or dog-proof your home! A person's attachment to their pet is very similar to a parent's attachment to their child. A pet is completely reliant on its master for food, water, exercise, play and love. By separating them, in secret no less, instead of attempting to find common ground, you proved you are monster who doesn't deserve to be with your man. You hurt him and thought nothing of it simply because you weren't willing to negotiate. Hopefully one day you realize what a complete jerk you are and will have the guts to tell your man the truth. He deserves at least that much.

13 No Trust, No Love, No Real Relationship

Everything about this post is sad. She must not trust him, which is why she "still" feels the need to hack into his Facebook account, which of course implies she used to do it in the past. On top of that mistrust, she must not be his "friend" on the application since she needs to go into his account just to see he doesn't have any pictures of her. He must not care about her as much as he should since he has no pictures of his spouse on his social media site, so combined, it sounds like the perfect example of relationships gone wrong, but there's still hope. Perhaps if she were honest about her snooping he would be honest about why he doesn't share pictures of her. Regardless of how that conversation ends, it seems anything would be better than what they have now.

12 You'd Better Take That Secret To The Grave

Why get married if you love someone else? Even if the person you truly love is unavailable due to marriage, sexual orientation or some other reason making it impossible to ever be with them, you're obviously not capable of being with anyone else! You need to let go before you move on or you're basically saying you don't care who you end up with and you can't give anyone your whole heart. Maybe you don't care about the sanctity of marriage or maybe you think you'll be fine since your husband loves you and you kind of like him back, but the bottom line is your husband can do better and you should never have attempted to move on by saying yes to the wrong person.

11 Get A Real Job And Pretend To Be A Decent Person

Even if you're low on cash, pretending to like someone when you don't is low class. Shame on you and shame on his intrusive mother. The poor guy is obviously lonely if his mom feels the need to interfere and you're only making his situation worse by agreeing to it! Yes, keeping it a secret from him is likely the nicest thing you can do aside from stopping the charade altogether but how long are you willing to continue to pretend date him? What happens when he spots you on a real date? What happens when you decide to leave him? If the poor guy is going to be crushed either way, you might as well admit the truth and spare him the shame and embarrassment sure to come when he figures everything out for himself.

10 You Both Need The Truth To Come Out

Rule number 1: Don't stay with someone simply because you think this is as good as it gets! This woman has been with a man for over FOURTEEN YEARS even though she doesn't really love him! How insane is that? She didn't have the confidence to find real love and, though she still regrets it, she has no one to blame but herself.

How anyone can stay with someone they don't love for so long is unfathomable, but consider how her husband must feel about it all! If she doesn't love him, he definitely knows it. Deep down, he sees the signs. If she's unhappy and he's unhappy, then she needs to release her secret and leave him. They can find true love somewhere else and neither of them has to stay in a marriage of convenience.

9 It's Really Not That Bad

Compared to some of the other secrets, not telling your boyfriend of four years that your beautiful black hair is actually just hair dye isn't so bad. Of course it's still a lie, which isn't conducive to a healthy relationship, but there are worse secrets out there. She's too embarrassed to admit the truth and there's a small chance that he could find out on his own and begin to question other aspects of her life, but it isn't likely. Sometimes it's better to trust your partner won't make a big deal of your situation and just tell them the truth. Odds are this couple will have a good laugh and he'll feel a bit silly for not knowing his girlfriend's true hair color all these years, but their relationship will survive.

8 You Need Help

Why do you feel the need to drink alcohol every morning? Why can't you be honest that you have a problem? Even if he's the reason you started drinking in the first place, it's still your decision to continue that destructive behavior. Every single day there are people who secretly spike their drinks because they don't want to be openly viewed as an alcoholic, but by secreting their habit away, they are putting themselves at risk for liver disease, risking their jobs and even risking their lives or the lives of others every time they get behind the wheel of a car. If you know you have a problem, don't hide it from your significant other. Get the help you need and be honest with the person you love.

7 You Already Did

You broke his heart the moment you cheated, even if he doesn't know about it. The second he finds out you slept with someone else, his heart will shatter. As he attempts to hold himself together and he learns you're pregnant with someone else's baby, the shards in his arms will cut him to pieces. You did wrong and you know it, but is it worse to expect him to raise a child who isn't his? What about the real father? Doesn't he have the right to know he's going to be a dad? No matter which way she goes, she's hurting someone, including her daughter. Will she really keep this massive secret from the men in her life and the daughter she's going to have? Let's hope not.

6 Cold-Hearted Woman

If you can't be with your true love, marry his brother! Just kidding, that's a horrible thing to do, and outside of movies I didn't think anyone would have the poor taste to actually pull it off. The only thing sadder than pining after someone you can't have is settling for someone close to him so he will always be a part of your life. It's pathetic of you, it's disrespectful to your spouse, and it would probably sicken the person you love. Congratulations, you're one of the worst human beings on the planet. No wonder this is your deepest, darkest secret. If anyone found out the truth, you'd lose everything and probably continue pining over a man who is now disgusted by your deplorable actions. There are just no words for how horrible you are.

5 What Happened?

There can be a lot of legitimate reasons for this secret. Maybe she was in an abusive relationship and had to run away, maybe things just didn't work out and she was in a bad place so she lost all parental rights. Regardless of why she chooses to keep this very big secret, it definitely qualifies as a personal issue no one really needs to know about. It's possible her past can catch up with her, but does her boyfriend need to know right now? As a boyfriend, it's possible she's waiting to tell him until the right moment or she is waiting for the relationship to become more serious Regardless, her decision to keep quiet is a rare instance in which it can't harm her partner. Sometimes what your lover doesn't know really won't hurt them.

4 He Deserves To Know

Sometimes when you're in love you do really dumb things. This secret is a great example of doing the absolute wrong thing. What she did was fall in love, which isn't bad on its own, but when she realized she couldn't have children, she decided to marry him anyway without telling him first. For all she knows, he could have said he was open to adoption and she wouldn't have to carry this horrendous secret around. The possibility of him not wanting to marry her is relatively low, but the right course of action remains. He should have had a choice to stay or leave and she didn't give him that. Whatever happens in the future regarding children will now be a direct result from her selfish silence. Let's hope he takes the news better than we did.

3 Messed Up

If that's what it takes for him to propose, then maybe you shouldn't be with him. He obviously didn't want to be with you in a long-term, legally binding way, so why did you feel the need to corner him? If you're not happy with your relationship status and your partner doesn't care about your feelings when you bring them up, they definitely won't care after you get married. Do you really want to deal with that forever? If you're desperate to tie the knot, at least make sure you do it with someone who is all-in and willing to be with you because they want to be, not because they think you just went through the horrible experience of losing a child. That's just messed up.

2 He Probably Has An Idea, But You Need To Fess Up

If you're married, there's a good chance he has an idea you're more attracted to women than you are him. If you're an excellent actress, then maybe you should consider taking off the mask and being honest with him. When you marry someone, you fulfill their need to give and receive love. By denying who you are to him and to yourself, you're removing love from the equation altogether. You need to love yourself enough to admit the truth, regardless of what anyone else thinks, and if you truly love your husband, even if it isn't in the romantic sense, then you need to let him go now. Give yourself and your spouse a chance to find someone new and start over, rather than drag both of you down into your pit of lies.

1 He's Going To Find Out Sooner Or Later

When it comes to money, you'd better believe your spouse is going to figure it out, and when they do it'll likely be at a time when money is tight. As soon as the need arises, he's going to investigate where you can cut costs as a family and your dirty little secret is going to come to light. Will you be ready to face the consequences of your actions?

Hopefully this shopping addict will realize that telling the truth is better than hiding something potentially disastrous from her spouse. He can either help her cut back on her habit or at least be aware that she is spending frivolously so he can plan a backup savings account. Either way, she has a problem that potentially impacts both of them and she needs to be honest about it before it's too late.