15 Text Messages To Send To Get Him To Want You

The last thing we want is to not hear from men again. It's one of the most stressful situations as sad as that sounds. However, we know by now that guys like their space and when they go MIA, it's nothing personal, most of the time. They're either busy with work, family events, or something else but it has nothing to do with you. Either way, you want him bad… and you want him to want you too.

This is when things get tricky and just a tad bit more stressful. How do you get him to want you? Especially when you don't know what he is up to and why he disappeared in the first place. The first thing girls think they should do is give him these hints that they absolutely believe will work but girls forget that guys aren't that great at reading signs like they are. So how else can you reach him and make him want you?

Below, are some examples of messages you should consider sending him to make him want you. Some of these will probably shock you but they work. They're not exactly the messages you think you should send such as bothering him to talk to you or complaining why you're upset he hasn't talked to you. These types of messages you're about to read are ideal to get him to want you without making you look crazy.

So check out the following 15 messages you can easily text him to finally get him to want you.

15 "You're Going to be Great"

If you're his number one motivation, then he's sure going to miss you. “I like negative Nancy's,” said no guy ever. When you're a positive light in someone's life, they want you there all the time. Same goes with guys in relationships. It's a well-known fact that guys hate girls who just bring drama to the table and create unnecessary problems. So when he has someone who just likes to motivate him and make him do his best, he's all over her. If you guys haven't talked to each other for a few days and you remember he has this big presentation at work ahead of him, just shoot him a text that will make him feel so much better about it. You can't go wrong with this. The worse thing that can happen is he doesn't appreciate it or makes you feel rejected in some way and if that's the case, then you know he's not worth it.

14 "I appreciate you"

Speaking of appreciation, if you let him know you appreciate him for all the things he does for you, he'll miss you more. Nothing makes a guy happier than knowing he is noticed and appreciated for all he does. There's a big stereotype where the guy is supposed to take action most of the time and so, that puts women in the position of being grateful for the things he does. If she comes off as unappreciative as if she is taking everything for granted, why is he going to miss that? She hasn't given him a reason. If you message him simply letting him know he is appreciated, he'll make sure he doesn't miss a chance in seeing you. Next time you feel like texting, take a deep breath and remember the stuff he has done for you and send him a short and sweet appreciation message.

13 "I Love It When I Make You Laugh"

Like I said before, guys can be clueless; even they know that. They're not sure about what makes you happy and what makes you go crazy. So sometimes you have to be straight up with him and let him know what you like and dislike about him. In this case, since you want to make him miss you, let him know what you like about him. Nothing is sweeter than knowing you can make someone genuinely laugh. So when he finds out you love it when he makes you laugh, he'll feel so relieved and happy that he's going to miss you. Plus, he'll be reassured that you're happy with him, making him miss you more than before. Things are so much better when you're well-aware of where everything stands. Although, we have been taught that actions speak louder than words, don't underestimate what words can do and their power.

12 "I Miss Cuddling With You"

Of course, guys can't help affection. So when you shoot him a text saying you want to cuddle with him or somewhere along those lines, he'll for sure get an instant feeling of missing you. This doesn't mean that all he wants is to be sexual with you. Sending him this message is just a way of making things exciting again without crossing the line. It gives him a direct reason to miss you and call you up. Girls also like affection, it's not just guys, so you're doing yourself a favor, too. Not only does it make things exciting but research has shown that cuddling can reduce stress and so, who knows if he's going through some tough times and this cuddling session is exactly what he needed to relax and feel at ease, especially with his sweetie. You can never go wrong with cuddling and being close to each other.

11 "Have a Great Day"

A simple message is all it takes sometimes. At the end of the day, guys are not that complicated. You just have to be simple in order to get the outcome you want from him. There's no need to be over the top and detailed about your feelings and that's a good thing. So a simple message like this can lead to some awesome long-term results. To just send him good wishes shows consideration and will overall make him feel good. Who wouldn't want to receive this message from their honey? It just makes you feel like someone cares for you genuinely no matter how short the message is. As said earlier, guys love it when you show support and this just lets him know you're sending positive vibes along his way. This also brings back the idea of being positive rather than the drama queen that guys normally despise can turn him on.

10 “I Only Want You”

Girls are not the only ones who want to feel special. Guys also like to feel like they mean something to her, they're just subtler about it. But when they find someone who makes them feel loved, they never want to let go. He'll never know, though, how you feel about him without directly letting him know. So why not just message him something sweet and something he possibly needs to hear to miss you more. At first, it does seem too straight up and might overwhelm him but once you explain yourself, he'll understand and love you for it. Generally, guys are not used to feeling this much love from someone else, especially from a stranger and it's usually because they are not vulnerable and open to the feeling. So it helps to be honest with him and then get into details later.

9 "You Got This, I Believe In You"

Motivation means a lot to guys, especially when they're independent and driven. If you're going to be with a guy who is all about working hard and reaching his potential then that's great but you're going to have accept the bad side, too, which is when you don't hear from him. The best thing to do is support him and motivate him to do his best. This for sure will benefit you in the long-run such as him missing you. Why wouldn't he want to be with you knowing you support him all the way? Rather than nagging him and asking for time together, show him you stand by his side in whatever he does to help him achieve his goals. He'll love you even more and as a result, make time for you. It shows you're not selfish and your love for him is sincere and he'll appreciate that.

8  "I Wish I Can See You Soon"

Sometimes all it takes is to be honest with him. Let him know you want to see him and don't beat around the bush. We all know that guys can be clueless and can't read minds like girls are usually able to do. They like it when you're just straight up with them as opposed to trying to give them signs since those signs can turn into mixed signals. We know mixed signals aren't great to deal with and can cause a waste of time. So why not just honestly let him know how you're feeling and then you'll know he wants to see you, too, or not. You'll never know the truth until you say the truth. But most likely, he's insecure about what you want so he'll be happy to learn you want to see him, too, and that's going to make him miss you way more than he was before.

7 "Don't Forget About Your Appointment Today"

Usually the reason why you haven't heard much from him is because he's busy and when he tells you he has a lot of things going on, he's not playing around. So the best thing you can do for him is support his crazy schedule. Rather than sending him a text message that's just about how your feelings, let him know you have his feelings on your mind, too. It never hurts to be considerate and generous. It also never hurts to show him you're there for him. This will give you major points in the long-run and he's going to want to see you after you come off as supportive and not selfish. In the end, you'll be happy that you were considerate of him when you get rewarded with his love and appreciation. So next time you have the urge to ask him what is he up to, try to remember if he has something important to do and if he did, remind him.

6  "You Make Ne Feel Good"

By letting him know how he makes you feel, you're reassuring him that everything is still going well between the two of you. Life can get crazy and full of distractions that you forget to prioritize what really matters. So he could probably start feeling a little doubt and think you don't want to hear from him so he's holding back. When you send him honest messages, it lets him know exactly where you both stand and that means less stress because there's less confusion. Guys actually like hearing these things. Don't be fooled because they are these masculine symbols that they don't like the “mushy” stuff. In fact, they have been open to liking really girly things that girls do; they find it cute. So don't be afraid to get a little cheesy here and there because it might just make him miss you more.

5 "Remember That Time When We… "

Recalling old memories can be so much fun and just the thing to do to get him to miss you. If the memories were good times, how could he not smile and miss you? This will just remind him of the good times he has shared with you and that you're a nice part of his life. Memories bring this comfort in the relationship when there is so much going on. When you go down memory lane, especially in relationships, it puts away everything else and makes you feel good to know you have that special someone to make memories with. Reminding him of these times also lets him know you care and you that you don't take these times for granted. Of course he's going to love that and as a result, miss you. He'll miss you and want to make more memories with you.

4 “Call Me When You're Free"

When you send him a message like this, it tells him you're being considerate of his time. It shows assertiveness and lets him know what you want but at the same time, you're being considerate of his time and busy schedule. This will mean a lot to him and show him that you're classy. It's like killing two birds with one stone; you let him what you want but you're giving him his space and time. It's a total win-win situation. Even if guys are known for not being good at expressing their feelings, they still feel something and when you make him feel good, he'll take notice. He might not show it to you but just know he recognizes your effort. If you get lucky, your man will let you know he appreciates it. He'll end up missing you for being such a good person.

3 "I Admire Your Drive"

Again, you have to be straight up with him. Subtle messages don't work with guys and they will let you know. They want you to be honest with them and not beat around the bush. If you happen to admire his determination but never tell him, he probably has no idea you feel that way about him. So in that case, you have to let him know verbally and it'll make his day. By sending these types of messages, you're showing you notice his drive and love it. How could he not miss you after receiving that message? It's just direct and that's what guys want because they know they can't read hints like girls can usually do. It might come off as too simple or even cheesy in a way but the good news is you don't have to over-complicate things and over-analyze how you can approach him.

2 "If You Need To Talk, I'm Here for You"

It doesn't get any more considerate than this. This message ultimately shows you care for him and you don't always put yourself first. That's what relationships are all about. It's about the two in the relationship, not one or the other. With that being said, when one of you is acting up, it's important to keep the other person in mind without jumping to conclusions. Women tend to over-analyze and nitpick more often than guys so when you show him you're not that way, it gives you brownie points. It shows you're not like other girls as you're more mature. You never know what could be the reason why he is missing so it's smart to first consider the other person and from there, you'll know if it's something more or not. But the consideration part is where he will miss you and want to see you.

1 "Just Wanted To Let You Know I Miss You"

The best thing you can do is be honest with him and honest with yourself. Why throw hints and play games when by now you know he doesn't like games and you're only hurting yourself by dragging it out more? Honesty is the best policy. It saves time and heartache. He'll never know if you want to see him if you never tell him. It might just give him a sense of relief, knowing you want to see him, too. Your mixed messages are probably giving him the idea you're not into it and are not in a rush to see him. But by directly letting him know what the situation is, he'll know for sure that you both want the same thing. Plus, by being honest without playing games, will turn him on because that's what guys generally like; being honest and straight up.